Kamál (Perfection), 2 ‘Ilm (Knowledge), 167 BE – Monday, October 17, 2011 about 3:20 PM Pacific Time
The price of peanut butter is increasing. I don’t suppose it should surprise me because everything, except my income is going up. If the price rises too much, I may have to stop buying peanut butter. I’m not happy about it, but I’m not sure there is anything else I can do. Mom and I live on a fixed income, which means we’re living close to the bone all the time.
The majority of our money goes for other things besides food. Peanut butter is one of Mom’s favorite foods. Mom could make an entire meal of peanut butter and crackers. I don’t know what I’m going to tell Mom if I have to take peanut butter off the menu.
I like peanut butter myself. If I stop eating it then the peanut butter will last longer. That may be one solution. I buy the peanut butter for Mom, instead of buying it for Mom and me. I will miss eating it, but I can get buy with something else. I can eat grape jelly sandwiches, I don’t have to have peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. I will miss them; however, I don’t see any other solution to the problem.
Monday, October 17, 2011
Sunday, October 16, 2011
A change of plans for this week
Jamál (Beauty), 1 ‘Ilm (Knowledge), 167 BE – Sunday, October 16, 2011 about 4:30 PM Pacific Time
I had planned to go to the laundromat on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. As it turns out, I have to remain home on Monday. If I let it, this will mess up my schedule for the week; however, I do not think I will let it. I have plenty to do here at home both on and off line.
I need to clean out the pantry and move some of the canned goods to another cupboard in the kitchen. I need to clean out Mom’s closet and my closet. We both have dresses that we will never wear, so I need to pack those in a box and give them away. I also need to get the spare room ready to rent. I am not sure the renting idea will work out, but it is worth a try because we need the money and I am tired of using that room as a “catch all”.
I suppose I need to write a “to do list” tonight so that I accomplish something tomorrow. If I can check a job off a list then I know I have accomplished something.
I had planned to go to the laundromat on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. As it turns out, I have to remain home on Monday. If I let it, this will mess up my schedule for the week; however, I do not think I will let it. I have plenty to do here at home both on and off line.
I need to clean out the pantry and move some of the canned goods to another cupboard in the kitchen. I need to clean out Mom’s closet and my closet. We both have dresses that we will never wear, so I need to pack those in a box and give them away. I also need to get the spare room ready to rent. I am not sure the renting idea will work out, but it is worth a try because we need the money and I am tired of using that room as a “catch all”.
I suppose I need to write a “to do list” tonight so that I accomplish something tomorrow. If I can check a job off a list then I know I have accomplished something.
Saturday, October 15, 2011
An interesting Saturday in Las Vegas
Jalál (Glory), 19 Mashíyyat (Will), 167 BE – Saturday, October 15, 2011 about 5:25 PM Pacific Time
It has been an interesting and frustrating Saturday. The frustrating concerned my computer this morning. I am not sure what caused the problem, but it seems to have cleared this afternoon. This morning the computer slowed down and I had to reboot several times because the CPU kept running at 100%. Because of the frustration I am tired and behind completing online work. This means staying up late tonight and tomorrow night completing work.
The interesting part of the day concerned my mother. This morning Mom was happy and singing or humming. She was singing “Yankee Doodle” and humming a John Philips Sousa piece, but I am not sure of the title. This afternoon Mom was crying. I have no idea why she cried because she never tells me. Actually, she does not know why she is crying.
I ask Mom why she is crying and she always says, “I don’t know” or “I’m not crying.” The reasons concern the Alzheimer’s disease and I suspect she forgets why she is crying. If I have a choice, I would rather she were singing. I suspect the reason Mom cries concerns her belief that her parents are still alive.
It has been an interesting and frustrating Saturday. The frustrating concerned my computer this morning. I am not sure what caused the problem, but it seems to have cleared this afternoon. This morning the computer slowed down and I had to reboot several times because the CPU kept running at 100%. Because of the frustration I am tired and behind completing online work. This means staying up late tonight and tomorrow night completing work.
The interesting part of the day concerned my mother. This morning Mom was happy and singing or humming. She was singing “Yankee Doodle” and humming a John Philips Sousa piece, but I am not sure of the title. This afternoon Mom was crying. I have no idea why she cried because she never tells me. Actually, she does not know why she is crying.
I ask Mom why she is crying and she always says, “I don’t know” or “I’m not crying.” The reasons concern the Alzheimer’s disease and I suspect she forgets why she is crying. If I have a choice, I would rather she were singing. I suspect the reason Mom cries concerns her belief that her parents are still alive.
Thursday, October 13, 2011
My laundromat schedule in Las Vegas
Istijlál (Majesty), 17 Mashíyyat (Will), 167 BE – Thursday, October 13, 2011 about 1:05 PM Pacific Time
Mom’s physical condition requires that I go to the laundromat more then once or twice a week. My physical condition requires a one-day recovery period between trips to the laundromat; therefore, my laundry schedule has to change. Today I have three baskets of laundry ready to go to the laundromat tomorrow morning. I have one more basket to load in the car today.
In addition, I think I am allergic to my fabric softener. I bought a new jug of unscented fabric softener to use in my cloths. I will use the scented softener in Mom’s cloths. Next week, I will go to the laundromat on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Monday is going to be a long day because I have to go to the bank and the grocery store before going to the laundromat. I need to get quarters at the bank and more fabric softener for Mom’s cloths. I am almost out of the scented fabric softener and I have to use it when I wash Mom’s cloths.
Thinking about next week’s schedule makes me tired. I have to increase my protein intake this weekend to prepare for next week’s schedule. I hope that helps. Going to the laundromat is strenuous exercise, which means the next time someone ask me if I get strenuous exercise, I can say “Yes, three times a week.”
Mom’s physical condition requires that I go to the laundromat more then once or twice a week. My physical condition requires a one-day recovery period between trips to the laundromat; therefore, my laundry schedule has to change. Today I have three baskets of laundry ready to go to the laundromat tomorrow morning. I have one more basket to load in the car today.
In addition, I think I am allergic to my fabric softener. I bought a new jug of unscented fabric softener to use in my cloths. I will use the scented softener in Mom’s cloths. Next week, I will go to the laundromat on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Monday is going to be a long day because I have to go to the bank and the grocery store before going to the laundromat. I need to get quarters at the bank and more fabric softener for Mom’s cloths. I am almost out of the scented fabric softener and I have to use it when I wash Mom’s cloths.
Thinking about next week’s schedule makes me tired. I have to increase my protein intake this weekend to prepare for next week’s schedule. I hope that helps. Going to the laundromat is strenuous exercise, which means the next time someone ask me if I get strenuous exercise, I can say “Yes, three times a week.”
Wednesday, October 12, 2011
I Gave the Cats to Becky
‘Idál (Justice), 16 Mashíyyat (Will), 167 BE – Wednesday, October 12, 2011 about 6:55 PM
Due to physical and financial, I could not continue to take care of both Mom and the cats. Therefore, with the help of my brother, I took the cats the animal shelter earlier this year. When Mom first noticed that they were gone, I told her I took them to the Vet and they had to stay there for a while. That seemed to satisfy Mom at the time.
Recently Mom asked, “Where are the cats?”
My reply, “I gave them to Becky.” I explained to Mom that Becky wanted some cats to keep her cat company and that satisfied Mom. I do not know a Becky, but apparently, Mom has known someone by that name because it satisfied her.
Because of the Alzheimer’s disease and short-term memory issues Mom usually forgets that we had cats. When she does remember it is unwise to tell her that I took them to the Animal Shelter because she will get angry. This forces me to come up with plausible explanations that will satisfy her when she asks the question. Fortunately, she does not ask the question vary often.
Due to physical and financial, I could not continue to take care of both Mom and the cats. Therefore, with the help of my brother, I took the cats the animal shelter earlier this year. When Mom first noticed that they were gone, I told her I took them to the Vet and they had to stay there for a while. That seemed to satisfy Mom at the time.
Recently Mom asked, “Where are the cats?”
My reply, “I gave them to Becky.” I explained to Mom that Becky wanted some cats to keep her cat company and that satisfied Mom. I do not know a Becky, but apparently, Mom has known someone by that name because it satisfied her.
Because of the Alzheimer’s disease and short-term memory issues Mom usually forgets that we had cats. When she does remember it is unwise to tell her that I took them to the Animal Shelter because she will get angry. This forces me to come up with plausible explanations that will satisfy her when she asks the question. Fortunately, she does not ask the question vary often.
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
How to wear yourself out in Las Vegas
Fidál (Grace), 15 Mashíyyat (Will), 167 BE – Tuesday, October 11, 2011 about 1:35 PM Pacific Time
How do you wear yourself out in Las Vegas? Go to the store and laundromat in the same day. I bet you thought I was going to write something about going to one of the hotel-casinos to see a show or do something else. I just got back from washing three baskets of cloths. Before I took the baskets to the laundromat, I stopped at Walgreens to pick up a couple of prescriptions for my Mother.
I am tired, worn out and sleepy. As I write this, I am yawning. I still have to go to the grocery store and wash four more baskets of laundry this week. No, the pipes behind my washing machine are not fixed, which means I have to take all my dirty cloths to the laundromat. Up until today, my physical limit was three baskets of cloths. I am changing that, especially if I have to go to a store before or after I go to the laundromat. Since I have rested a little, I will post this entry and bring the clean cloths into the house.
I still have to lug three baskets of clean cloths into the house and fold the sheets. All right, I realized when I folded the towels that I had reached my physical limit and would have to bring the sheets home without folding them. I do not like to do this, but there is a limit to how much laundry I can finish in a single day at the laundromat. Tomorrow, I will wash only two baskets of cloths before going to the grocery store.
How do you wear yourself out in Las Vegas? Go to the store and laundromat in the same day. I bet you thought I was going to write something about going to one of the hotel-casinos to see a show or do something else. I just got back from washing three baskets of cloths. Before I took the baskets to the laundromat, I stopped at Walgreens to pick up a couple of prescriptions for my Mother.
I am tired, worn out and sleepy. As I write this, I am yawning. I still have to go to the grocery store and wash four more baskets of laundry this week. No, the pipes behind my washing machine are not fixed, which means I have to take all my dirty cloths to the laundromat. Up until today, my physical limit was three baskets of cloths. I am changing that, especially if I have to go to a store before or after I go to the laundromat. Since I have rested a little, I will post this entry and bring the clean cloths into the house.
I still have to lug three baskets of clean cloths into the house and fold the sheets. All right, I realized when I folded the towels that I had reached my physical limit and would have to bring the sheets home without folding them. I do not like to do this, but there is a limit to how much laundry I can finish in a single day at the laundromat. Tomorrow, I will wash only two baskets of cloths before going to the grocery store.
Monday, October 10, 2011
I Gave the Chickens to a Farmer
Kamál (Perfection), 14 Mashíyyat (Will), 167 BE – Monday, October 10, 2011 about 10:45 AM Pacific Time
This morning Mom asked, “Where are the chickens?”
My response, “What chickens?” I have to remember not to ask the “what” question, when asks me about where animals or people are because sometimes she gets upset. She did not get upset this morning.
Mom said, “I thought we had chickens.”
My response, “We could not get a permit, so I gave the chickens to a farmer.”
When Mom was a child, she lived on a farm in Oklahoma and they had chickens. When my grandparents moved to Blackwell, the also had chickens. I suspect Mom still thinks she lives in Blackwell, Oklahoma. I have not broached the subject because I do not want to get Mom upset. My answer seemed to satisfy her, so I will leave it at that right now.
When dealing with an Alzheimer’s patient, you have to put yourself in their world. Mom does not remember attending her parents’ funerals; she thinks they are still alive. Mom does not think she is 90 years old, which is another subject I have no intention of broaching.
If Mom brings up the subject of the chickens again, I will take an egg from the refrigerator, cook it, and tell her the farmer brought us some eggs from the chickens we gave him. It will make Mom happy and I really do not think the store where I buy my eggs cares what I tell Mom about them.
This morning Mom asked, “Where are the chickens?”
My response, “What chickens?” I have to remember not to ask the “what” question, when asks me about where animals or people are because sometimes she gets upset. She did not get upset this morning.
Mom said, “I thought we had chickens.”
My response, “We could not get a permit, so I gave the chickens to a farmer.”
When Mom was a child, she lived on a farm in Oklahoma and they had chickens. When my grandparents moved to Blackwell, the also had chickens. I suspect Mom still thinks she lives in Blackwell, Oklahoma. I have not broached the subject because I do not want to get Mom upset. My answer seemed to satisfy her, so I will leave it at that right now.
When dealing with an Alzheimer’s patient, you have to put yourself in their world. Mom does not remember attending her parents’ funerals; she thinks they are still alive. Mom does not think she is 90 years old, which is another subject I have no intention of broaching.
If Mom brings up the subject of the chickens again, I will take an egg from the refrigerator, cook it, and tell her the farmer brought us some eggs from the chickens we gave him. It will make Mom happy and I really do not think the store where I buy my eggs cares what I tell Mom about them.
Saturday, October 08, 2011
Saturday is Trash pick up day
Jalál (Glory), 12 Mashíyyat (Will), 167 BE – Saturday, October 8, 2011 about 4:48 PM Pacific Time
Saturday is trash collection day in my neighborhood and I did not get the trashcan rolled to the curb this morning. This is the second time this week that I missed or forgot to roll the trashcan to the curb. Wednesday was also trash collection day on Bracken Avenue.
It is all right to miss one day, but missing two days is a problem. I now have to make sure that there is no fifty plus pounds of trash in my trashcan. I do not remember why I missed rolling the trash to the curb on Wednesday, but today I was involved in getting Mom up and dressed. I also had breakfast to fix for her. I think the breakfast part of the morning was the issue.
Perhaps the best solution is to roll the can to the curb the night before. This means that Tuesday and Friday evenings I have to roll the can to the curb. I do not like doing this because there is always the chance of a stray dog running loose in the neighborhood.
Normally the only animals that run loose in this neighborhood are the cats. Most people keep their dogs on leashes or behind fences, so it is unlikely that a neighborhood dog would knock over the trashcan, but there is always the possibility of a stray coming into the neighborhood. However, I think I will start taking the trashcan to the curb the night before trash collection day.
Saturday is trash collection day in my neighborhood and I did not get the trashcan rolled to the curb this morning. This is the second time this week that I missed or forgot to roll the trashcan to the curb. Wednesday was also trash collection day on Bracken Avenue.
It is all right to miss one day, but missing two days is a problem. I now have to make sure that there is no fifty plus pounds of trash in my trashcan. I do not remember why I missed rolling the trash to the curb on Wednesday, but today I was involved in getting Mom up and dressed. I also had breakfast to fix for her. I think the breakfast part of the morning was the issue.
Perhaps the best solution is to roll the can to the curb the night before. This means that Tuesday and Friday evenings I have to roll the can to the curb. I do not like doing this because there is always the chance of a stray dog running loose in the neighborhood.
Normally the only animals that run loose in this neighborhood are the cats. Most people keep their dogs on leashes or behind fences, so it is unlikely that a neighborhood dog would knock over the trashcan, but there is always the possibility of a stray coming into the neighborhood. However, I think I will start taking the trashcan to the curb the night before trash collection day.
Thursday, October 06, 2011
Laundry Day in Las Vegas
Istiqlál (Independence), 11 Mashíyyat (Will), 167 BE – Thursday, October 6, 2011 about 7:30 PM Pacific Time
Thursday was laundry day. I took three baskets to the laundromat and it took me all morning to wash, dry, and fold them. I had just enough detergent to do the three loads. Tomorrow I have to go to the store for more detergent. Then I have to go to the laundromat again and do three more loads. I should also go to the bank and get some more quarters.
I am tired of going to the laundromat. The only thing I enjoy there is the soda machine because it contains cans of mango juice. Every time I go to the laundromat, I buy a can of mango juice and drink it while I wait for the cloths to wash.
Thursday was laundry day. I took three baskets to the laundromat and it took me all morning to wash, dry, and fold them. I had just enough detergent to do the three loads. Tomorrow I have to go to the store for more detergent. Then I have to go to the laundromat again and do three more loads. I should also go to the bank and get some more quarters.
I am tired of going to the laundromat. The only thing I enjoy there is the soda machine because it contains cans of mango juice. Every time I go to the laundromat, I buy a can of mango juice and drink it while I wait for the cloths to wash.
Tuesday, October 04, 2011
Monday was an interesting rainy day in Las Vegas
Fidál (Grace), 8 Mashíyyat (Will), 167 BE – Tuesday, October 4, 2011 about 11:05 AM Pacific Time
Interesting days are usually full of excitement or stress. Monday was a stressful day. After Mom left for the Adult Daycare Center, I got ready to leave the house. The lens fell out of my glasses, it turned out that the screw came out. I could not find the screw, so I had to figure another way to fix my glasses.
I used a needle and thread to sow the glasses together. This method is simple. I find a needle small that is enough to go through the screw hole. The eye of the needle must be large enough for me to thread it, which was not easy with one lens missing from my glasses; however, I did find the appropriate sized needle and fixed my glasses.
I went to the bank to get some gas money and a roll of quarter for laundry. The line at the bank was long and slow moving, so I went to the ATM. While waiting in line at the ATM, it began to rain. I did not rain very much, just enough to get my windshield wet. I then went to the gas station before going to pick up my mother’s hearing aids.
After picking up Mom’s hearing aids, I went back to the bank because I still needed money for laundry. The line, with different people in it, was same length as earlier that morning. I had no choice, but to get my quarter. I left the bank and went home because I need to eat something. After I finished eating, it rained again this time with thunder and lightning. A friend came by and took three baskets to the laundromat. So now, I have enough clean cloths and sheets to last until Wednesday or Thursday.
Since I have a technician coming into check the air condition on Wednesday, I will have to go to the laundromat, the pharmacy, and the grocery store on Thursday. Today, I am waiting on a delivery and catching up on writing projects and other stuff.
Interesting days are usually full of excitement or stress. Monday was a stressful day. After Mom left for the Adult Daycare Center, I got ready to leave the house. The lens fell out of my glasses, it turned out that the screw came out. I could not find the screw, so I had to figure another way to fix my glasses.
I used a needle and thread to sow the glasses together. This method is simple. I find a needle small that is enough to go through the screw hole. The eye of the needle must be large enough for me to thread it, which was not easy with one lens missing from my glasses; however, I did find the appropriate sized needle and fixed my glasses.
I went to the bank to get some gas money and a roll of quarter for laundry. The line at the bank was long and slow moving, so I went to the ATM. While waiting in line at the ATM, it began to rain. I did not rain very much, just enough to get my windshield wet. I then went to the gas station before going to pick up my mother’s hearing aids.
After picking up Mom’s hearing aids, I went back to the bank because I still needed money for laundry. The line, with different people in it, was same length as earlier that morning. I had no choice, but to get my quarter. I left the bank and went home because I need to eat something. After I finished eating, it rained again this time with thunder and lightning. A friend came by and took three baskets to the laundromat. So now, I have enough clean cloths and sheets to last until Wednesday or Thursday.
Since I have a technician coming into check the air condition on Wednesday, I will have to go to the laundromat, the pharmacy, and the grocery store on Thursday. Today, I am waiting on a delivery and catching up on writing projects and other stuff.
Sunday, October 02, 2011
Upgrading my technology
Jamál (Beauty), 6 Mashíyyat (Will), 167 BE – Sunday, October 1-2, 2011 about 1:30 PM Pacific Time
I changed browser in September. I am now using Google Chrome. I like this Google Chrome browser because it is easier to use then the browser I used before. It is also faster. I do not know why I did not change browser earlier this year. I am enjoying working online again.
My next project is to upgrade my computer. Until I can get a new computer, I need to clean off my hard drive. I have too much stuff save to it so I have to decide what I need to keep on the hard drive and what I need to move to a back up desk. The problem is I do not know where to start, so I guess I will start with the photos I have saved and work from there.
I changed browser in September. I am now using Google Chrome. I like this Google Chrome browser because it is easier to use then the browser I used before. It is also faster. I do not know why I did not change browser earlier this year. I am enjoying working online again.
My next project is to upgrade my computer. Until I can get a new computer, I need to clean off my hard drive. I have too much stuff save to it so I have to decide what I need to keep on the hard drive and what I need to move to a back up desk. The problem is I do not know where to start, so I guess I will start with the photos I have saved and work from there.
Saturday, October 01, 2011
Keeping a Food Diary for my Mother
Jalál (Glory), 5 Mashíyyat (Will), 167 BE – Saturday, October 1, 2011 about 4:31 PM Pacific Time
Yesterday, I thought I would create a daily menu for October; however, I have changed my mind. I am going to keep a food diary for Mom and myself. There was an issue with Mom this morning and I am not precisely sure what caused it. I suspect the hot cakes we ate this morning caused the problem. However, I am not sure whether it was the hot cakes or the oil used to cook them.
I did not give her any margarine, but she did have syrup on them. Anyway, I will keep a food diary for the rest of October and see what causes the problem. Since I am keeping a diary for Mom, I may as well keep one for myself.
For lunch, we ate frozen dinners, which contained peas, meat, and potatoes. For dinner, we will have rice (cooked with shrimp bullion) and green beans. I am adding any meat to the rice because we have canned chicken and I do not want to use anything else that has salt.
Mom retains water (which was not the issue this morning) and her feet swell. Since a water pill lowers her blood pressure, she cannot take water pills.
Yesterday, I thought I would create a daily menu for October; however, I have changed my mind. I am going to keep a food diary for Mom and myself. There was an issue with Mom this morning and I am not precisely sure what caused it. I suspect the hot cakes we ate this morning caused the problem. However, I am not sure whether it was the hot cakes or the oil used to cook them.
I did not give her any margarine, but she did have syrup on them. Anyway, I will keep a food diary for the rest of October and see what causes the problem. Since I am keeping a diary for Mom, I may as well keep one for myself.
For lunch, we ate frozen dinners, which contained peas, meat, and potatoes. For dinner, we will have rice (cooked with shrimp bullion) and green beans. I am adding any meat to the rice because we have canned chicken and I do not want to use anything else that has salt.
Mom retains water (which was not the issue this morning) and her feet swell. Since a water pill lowers her blood pressure, she cannot take water pills.
Thursday, September 29, 2011
Thoughts on our October’s Menu
Istijlál (Majesty), 3 Mashíyyat (Will), 167 BE – Thursday, September 29, 2011 about 11:05 AM Pacific Time
I have to make a daily menu for October because I am tired of trying to figure out what I want to eat. I have plenty of food in the house, which could be the issue when it concerns fixing something to eat for myself. Mom spends Monday through Friday at the Day Care Center, so she gets two meals there.
Mom can eat four means a day, so I have to find two meals for her during the week and four meals on weekends. Sometimes I can eat four meals a day and sometimes only two. We have pasta and canned vegetables, so most of the meals in October will consist of that. I know that for breakfast, I will eat cereal, but I think I will cook rice for Mom to eat.
There is only one box of Mom’s cereal left and she cannot eat my cereal because of the high fiber content. White rice has little or no dietary, so I will fix that for her breakfast. If she wants something to go with it, I will give her canned fruit or milk. Mom likes milk, she drinks at least one cup of milk in the morning.
Because the hearing aids require a co-pay, the October budget is tight. I only hope that Mom does not lose the new hearing aids. If she does, I do not know what we are going to do.
I have to make a daily menu for October because I am tired of trying to figure out what I want to eat. I have plenty of food in the house, which could be the issue when it concerns fixing something to eat for myself. Mom spends Monday through Friday at the Day Care Center, so she gets two meals there.
Mom can eat four means a day, so I have to find two meals for her during the week and four meals on weekends. Sometimes I can eat four meals a day and sometimes only two. We have pasta and canned vegetables, so most of the meals in October will consist of that. I know that for breakfast, I will eat cereal, but I think I will cook rice for Mom to eat.
There is only one box of Mom’s cereal left and she cannot eat my cereal because of the high fiber content. White rice has little or no dietary, so I will fix that for her breakfast. If she wants something to go with it, I will give her canned fruit or milk. Mom likes milk, she drinks at least one cup of milk in the morning.
Because the hearing aids require a co-pay, the October budget is tight. I only hope that Mom does not lose the new hearing aids. If she does, I do not know what we are going to do.
Monday, September 26, 2011
My last Doctor’s Appointment
Kamál (Perfection), 19 ‘Izzat (Might), 167 BE – Monday, September 26, 2011 about 1:46 PM Pacific Time
At my last appointment, the Doctor said my blood test looked good, so she gave me a 90-day supply of meds with three refills. She said I did not have to make another appointment until August of 2012. This is nice; because that is one thing, I will not have to worry about. In addition, I had lost four pounds.
I turn 65 in December and go on Medicare. I have picked a Medicare Advantage plan and a new Doctor. I have to have my first Medicare physical in December or January. I am going to make an appointment in December with the new Doctor. Even though my present Doctor said I did not need an appointment until next year, there is no use putting off Medicare appointment because I have to have a mammogram in December or January.
I think my last mammogram was in December 2010. Therefore, I need to get one this year. I have my Medicare Advantage card in my purse; the only thing I have to do now is make the appointment. I am looking forward to meeting my new Doctor.
At my last appointment, the Doctor said my blood test looked good, so she gave me a 90-day supply of meds with three refills. She said I did not have to make another appointment until August of 2012. This is nice; because that is one thing, I will not have to worry about. In addition, I had lost four pounds.
I turn 65 in December and go on Medicare. I have picked a Medicare Advantage plan and a new Doctor. I have to have my first Medicare physical in December or January. I am going to make an appointment in December with the new Doctor. Even though my present Doctor said I did not need an appointment until next year, there is no use putting off Medicare appointment because I have to have a mammogram in December or January.
I think my last mammogram was in December 2010. Therefore, I need to get one this year. I have my Medicare Advantage card in my purse; the only thing I have to do now is make the appointment. I am looking forward to meeting my new Doctor.
Sunday, September 25, 2011
A Beautiful Sunday in Las Vegas
Jamál (Beauty), 18 ‘Izzat (Might), 167 BE – Sunday, September 25, 2011 about 6:30 PM Pacific Time
Beautiful Sunday
Last night’s rain cleaned Las Vegas
Washed the city air
A new week begins. The rain cleansed the air and the city (at least my part of it) looks fresh and clean. It was a beautiful morning to sit on the couch with a cup of coffee reading the Sunday comics.
Beautiful Sunday
Last night’s rain cleaned Las Vegas
Washed the city air
A new week begins. The rain cleansed the air and the city (at least my part of it) looks fresh and clean. It was a beautiful morning to sit on the couch with a cup of coffee reading the Sunday comics.
Saturday, September 24, 2011
Water cold or at room temperature
Jalál (Glory), 17 ‘Izzat (Might), 167 BE – Saturday, September 24, 2011 about 4:55 PM Pacific Time
I read somewhere that a person drinks more water at room temperature then when the water is cold. This is not how it works for me. I do not enjoy drinking water at room temperature. I prefer my water cold and I will drink more water if it is cold then if it is at room temperature.
I believe I acquired this habit or perhaps I should say this taste when I was a child. My Mother and Grandmother always kept water in the refrigerator. At that time, when I drink water I always got it out of the fridge or I put ice cubes in it.
Today, I will not drink water at room temperature. Before I take a sip of water, I put ice cubes in the glass. If the ice cubes melt then I go to the refrigerator and get more ice cubes. I am not talking about one or two cubes. I fill my water container full of ice cubes before I pour the water into it. Then when I put the water in the container, I get it out of the pitcher I keep in the refrigerator. I do not like water at room temperature. If I have to drink it because I am thirsty and have no ice, I will drink it, but only as a last resort.
I read somewhere that a person drinks more water at room temperature then when the water is cold. This is not how it works for me. I do not enjoy drinking water at room temperature. I prefer my water cold and I will drink more water if it is cold then if it is at room temperature.
I believe I acquired this habit or perhaps I should say this taste when I was a child. My Mother and Grandmother always kept water in the refrigerator. At that time, when I drink water I always got it out of the fridge or I put ice cubes in it.
Today, I will not drink water at room temperature. Before I take a sip of water, I put ice cubes in the glass. If the ice cubes melt then I go to the refrigerator and get more ice cubes. I am not talking about one or two cubes. I fill my water container full of ice cubes before I pour the water into it. Then when I put the water in the container, I get it out of the pitcher I keep in the refrigerator. I do not like water at room temperature. If I have to drink it because I am thirsty and have no ice, I will drink it, but only as a last resort.
Friday, September 23, 2011
Powdered Milk and Warmed over Coffee in Las Vegas
Istiqlál (Independence), 16 ‘Izzat (Might), 167 BE – Friday, September 23, 2011 about 7:20 AM Pacific Time
Powdered (dry) milk does not taste like the regular milk any more then warming leftover coffee taste like fresh brewed; however, I am getting used to the taste of both. Fortunately, with coffee I can make another carafe fresh coffee when I have drank all the leftover.
It is a little more difficult with the dry milk. I have to mix another pitcher of dry milk today. I can make it taste better by ignoring the directions of the package and mixing it a little stronger. Alternatively, I can follow the directions and pour in a can of condensed milk. Condensed milk tastes more like the milk from the plastic jugs or cardboard containers. Adding chocolate syrup powder also helps the taste, unfortunately I do not have any type of chocolate mix.
Mom does not mind the taste of the powered milk. When it come the milk, the only complaint Mom has is that it is cold. Perhaps I should start warming her milk up in the microwave before I give it to her. I will have to practice warming it in the microwave so that I do not burn the milk.
Eventually I will get used to the taste of the milk. It has taken me longer then I thought, but I just have to be persistent. I will get some chocolate mix next time I go to the store for food and household items. Right now, I am closing this entry so that I can heat up another cup of leftover coffee in the microwave.
Powdered (dry) milk does not taste like the regular milk any more then warming leftover coffee taste like fresh brewed; however, I am getting used to the taste of both. Fortunately, with coffee I can make another carafe fresh coffee when I have drank all the leftover.
It is a little more difficult with the dry milk. I have to mix another pitcher of dry milk today. I can make it taste better by ignoring the directions of the package and mixing it a little stronger. Alternatively, I can follow the directions and pour in a can of condensed milk. Condensed milk tastes more like the milk from the plastic jugs or cardboard containers. Adding chocolate syrup powder also helps the taste, unfortunately I do not have any type of chocolate mix.
Mom does not mind the taste of the powered milk. When it come the milk, the only complaint Mom has is that it is cold. Perhaps I should start warming her milk up in the microwave before I give it to her. I will have to practice warming it in the microwave so that I do not burn the milk.
Eventually I will get used to the taste of the milk. It has taken me longer then I thought, but I just have to be persistent. I will get some chocolate mix next time I go to the store for food and household items. Right now, I am closing this entry so that I can heat up another cup of leftover coffee in the microwave.
Thursday, September 22, 2011
After my Wednesday Doctor’s appointment in Las Vegas
Istijlál (Majesty), 15 ‘Izzat (Might), 167 BE – Thursday, September 22, 2011 about 7:15 AM Pacific Time
I went to the doctor yesterday for the results of my blood test. My thyroid levels are in balance, so she refilled my prescription. I dropped the prescription off at the Smith’s Food & Drug pharmacy. I bought a few items we needed and came home. I will pick the prescription up on Friday because today I have to stay home and make some phone calls.
There is no rush to pick up the thyroid meds because my Doctor did not change the dosage. I still have about three or four tablets left, so I do not need the prescription immediately. I will pick the meds up tomorrow and buy anything else we may need for the weekend.
I went to the doctor yesterday for the results of my blood test. My thyroid levels are in balance, so she refilled my prescription. I dropped the prescription off at the Smith’s Food & Drug pharmacy. I bought a few items we needed and came home. I will pick the prescription up on Friday because today I have to stay home and make some phone calls.
There is no rush to pick up the thyroid meds because my Doctor did not change the dosage. I still have about three or four tablets left, so I do not need the prescription immediately. I will pick the meds up tomorrow and buy anything else we may need for the weekend.
Monday, September 19, 2011
Where oh where have the hearing aids gone
Kamál (Perfection), 12 ‘Izzat (Might), 167 BE – Monday, September 19, 2011 about 11:06 AM Pacific Time
I opened the bed in the couch to see if Mom’s hearing aids feel down into the mattress. I did not find the hearing aids, but it was not a total waste of effort. I found a teaspoon and fork that had fallen into the couch. I still have to figure out what Mom did with her hearing aids. I am sure she took them out of her ears at home, but I cannot figure out where she put them.
I looked in her purse a dozen times. I have searched the ground outside along the driveway. I have not found them yet and I do not want to give up looking for them, I just cannot figure out where they could be. It is almost as if the ground or the floor opened and swallowed them. Since we have not had any earthquakes recently I do not think that happen, but it would make a good plot to a story.
I opened the bed in the couch to see if Mom’s hearing aids feel down into the mattress. I did not find the hearing aids, but it was not a total waste of effort. I found a teaspoon and fork that had fallen into the couch. I still have to figure out what Mom did with her hearing aids. I am sure she took them out of her ears at home, but I cannot figure out where she put them.
I looked in her purse a dozen times. I have searched the ground outside along the driveway. I have not found them yet and I do not want to give up looking for them, I just cannot figure out where they could be. It is almost as if the ground or the floor opened and swallowed them. Since we have not had any earthquakes recently I do not think that happen, but it would make a good plot to a story.
Sunday, September 18, 2011
Looking for my mother’s hearing aids
Jamál (Beauty), 11 ‘Izzat (Might), 167 BE – Sunday, September 18, 2011 about 10:55 AM Pacific Time
My mother lost her hearing aids last week. It occurred on Thursday, after she came home from the daycare center. She had her hearing aids in her ears when she got out of the daycare van. Sometime between the time she got out of the van and went to bed, she took them out of her ears and laid them down or dropped them.
It is possible she took them out of her ears before she got into the house and dropped them on the ground. I have looked and looked, but I cannot find them outside. With some help, I moved the couch and looked under it, but no hearing aids.
Her hearing aids had batteries in them, so I should be able to hear the noise they make. I have not heard that noise, so I am not sure where they are. I am at my wits end and do not know what to do. I am beginning to think it will take a miracle to find them because I do not know where else to look.
Every time I go outside, I look for them; I find nothing. I have to look for them somewhere else, but I think I have exhausted the locations. This is just another one of those things that happen when one is taking care of an Alzheimer sufferer.
My mother lost her hearing aids last week. It occurred on Thursday, after she came home from the daycare center. She had her hearing aids in her ears when she got out of the daycare van. Sometime between the time she got out of the van and went to bed, she took them out of her ears and laid them down or dropped them.
It is possible she took them out of her ears before she got into the house and dropped them on the ground. I have looked and looked, but I cannot find them outside. With some help, I moved the couch and looked under it, but no hearing aids.
Her hearing aids had batteries in them, so I should be able to hear the noise they make. I have not heard that noise, so I am not sure where they are. I am at my wits end and do not know what to do. I am beginning to think it will take a miracle to find them because I do not know where else to look.
Every time I go outside, I look for them; I find nothing. I have to look for them somewhere else, but I think I have exhausted the locations. This is just another one of those things that happen when one is taking care of an Alzheimer sufferer.
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Half way through September in Las Vegas
It is half way through September. I downloaded Google Chrome on Monday and enjoying suffering the Internet again. I like the ease with which I can find websites. I also find it easier to tab browse and access e-mail links.
It is half way through September. Today I went to Office Depot and bought cartridges for my printer. I am not sure how long the cartridges will last, so I need to buy another pair by the end of the month. I use my printer to print coupons, as well as everything else. Because I needed print cartridges, I could not print anything for the past couple of weeks.
It is half way through September, my browser is faster and I can print again, even if it is only one page at a time. My printer jams when I attempt to print more then one page at a time. This is frustrating because when I print something off a website it is usually more then one page.
It is half way through September. Today I went to Office Depot and bought cartridges for my printer. I am not sure how long the cartridges will last, so I need to buy another pair by the end of the month. I use my printer to print coupons, as well as everything else. Because I needed print cartridges, I could not print anything for the past couple of weeks.
It is half way through September, my browser is faster and I can print again, even if it is only one page at a time. My printer jams when I attempt to print more then one page at a time. This is frustrating because when I print something off a website it is usually more then one page.
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
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A Rainy Wednesday in Las Vegas
‘Idál (Justice), 7 ‘Izzat (Might), 167 BE – Wednesday, September 14, 2011 about 8:10 AM Pacific Time
Cold drops of water
Striking my arms face and hair
Invigorating
It is raining. When I took a bag of trash to the garage, the raindrops fell onto my arms, face, and hair. Perhaps I need to buy an umbrella or a raincoat to wear on days like this.
Cold drops of water
Striking my arms face and hair
Invigorating
It is raining. When I took a bag of trash to the garage, the raindrops fell onto my arms, face, and hair. Perhaps I need to buy an umbrella or a raincoat to wear on days like this.
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Thunder, Lightning, and Rain in Las Vegas
It is a beautiful cloudy day in Las Vegas. I hear thunder and last night I saw lightning. It rained a bit in my neighborhood. It was nice to see the rain because it has been so hot. I am glad it is raining and cool today because I have no air conditioning again. I do not know what the problem is this time, all I do know is that it would not come on yesterday even though the temperature rose to 88 and the thermostat is turned to 82.
I turned the unit off, called the tech, and now I am waiting for someone to come out and check it. Since it is raining off and on I do not need the cool air because it is cold enough for now. At least the temperatures will not get into the triple digits today.
I turned the unit off, called the tech, and now I am waiting for someone to come out and check it. Since it is raining off and on I do not need the cool air because it is cold enough for now. At least the temperatures will not get into the triple digits today.
Monday, September 12, 2011
Sweltering in Las Vegas
Fidál (Grace), 6 ‘Izzat (Might), 167 BE – Monday, September 12, 2011 about 7:40 PM Pacific Time
It was humid today; I do not think it was very hot because the temperature air conditioner did not come on. It did not get over 82 degrees in the house, but it feels muggy. I prefer a dryer heat; however, I enjoy sitting in the house and watching the rain. I do not enjoy the humidity.
Humid and cloudy
Not a single drop of rain
In my neighborhood
It was humid today; I do not think it was very hot because the temperature air conditioner did not come on. It did not get over 82 degrees in the house, but it feels muggy. I prefer a dryer heat; however, I enjoy sitting in the house and watching the rain. I do not enjoy the humidity.
Humid and cloudy
Not a single drop of rain
In my neighborhood
Saturday, September 10, 2011
Follow the instructions in Las Vegas
Jalál (Glory), 3 ‘Izzat (Might), 167 BE – Saturday, September 10, 2011 about 12:45 PM Pacific Time
Yesterday, when I went to the grocery store I bought a package of hotcake mix. The type I bought required me to add water, so I did not make “from scratch” hotcakes. I followed the directions that said it would make eight to twelve pancakes. I got only seven from the batch I mixed.
I suspect the instructions referred to smaller servings of hotcakes then I make. I want good-sized servings when I make hotcakes because the small servings do not fill either Mom or me. This morning, Mom was satisfied with amount she ate. I was happy, but not satisfied. Tomorrow when I make hotcakes, I will also fry eggs to go with them.
Yesterday, when I went to the grocery store I bought a package of hotcake mix. The type I bought required me to add water, so I did not make “from scratch” hotcakes. I followed the directions that said it would make eight to twelve pancakes. I got only seven from the batch I mixed.
I suspect the instructions referred to smaller servings of hotcakes then I make. I want good-sized servings when I make hotcakes because the small servings do not fill either Mom or me. This morning, Mom was satisfied with amount she ate. I was happy, but not satisfied. Tomorrow when I make hotcakes, I will also fry eggs to go with them.
Friday, September 09, 2011
Comparison Shopping in Las Vegas
Istiqlál (Independence), 2 ‘Izzat (Might), 167 BE – Friday, September 9, 2011 about 1:04 PM Pacific Time
I went grocery shopping this morning. I needed to get a few stuff for the weekend. One of the things I bought was crackers, Mom likes peanut butter and crackers. Until today, I thought cracker did not have any dietary fiber in them, I was wrong. Some brands of cracker have it and some do not.
I did find a brand that did not have dietary fiber, but it cost about $4.00. The brand I bought had only 1 gram of fiber and it cost about $2.00. I bought the brand with the 1 gram because could buy two boxes of crackers for what one of the other brand cost.
Since the doctor put Mom on a low fiber diet, life has become much more complicated. There was a time when I did not read the ingredients on the label. I went to the store and bought the item I wanted without checking the label. I spent less time in the grocery store, now it takes me longer to shop because I have to read the labels.
I went grocery shopping this morning. I needed to get a few stuff for the weekend. One of the things I bought was crackers, Mom likes peanut butter and crackers. Until today, I thought cracker did not have any dietary fiber in them, I was wrong. Some brands of cracker have it and some do not.
I did find a brand that did not have dietary fiber, but it cost about $4.00. The brand I bought had only 1 gram of fiber and it cost about $2.00. I bought the brand with the 1 gram because could buy two boxes of crackers for what one of the other brand cost.
Since the doctor put Mom on a low fiber diet, life has become much more complicated. There was a time when I did not read the ingredients on the label. I went to the store and bought the item I wanted without checking the label. I spent less time in the grocery store, now it takes me longer to shop because I have to read the labels.
Thursday, September 08, 2011
A mostly cloudy day in Las Vegas
Mostly cloudy sky
Patches of blue and sunshine
A breeze kisses trees
It is a beautiful afternoon in Las Vegas. White fluffy clouds dance across the sky. The clouds imply humidity, but do not promise rain. All though, just to be on the safe side I think I will make sure my car windows are rolled up.
Patches of blue and sunshine
A breeze kisses trees
It is a beautiful afternoon in Las Vegas. White fluffy clouds dance across the sky. The clouds imply humidity, but do not promise rain. All though, just to be on the safe side I think I will make sure my car windows are rolled up.
Monday, September 05, 2011
Happy Labor Day
Kamál (Perfection), 17 Asmá’ (Names), 167 BE – Monday, September 5, 2011 about 12:00 PM Pacific Time
Happy Labor Day, the day we celebrate the contribution of the ordinary working person to civilization and society. I sent one of my brothers a text wishing him a “Happy Labor Day”. He responded with a message that said “Happy” and “Labor” are contradictions in terms.
Perhaps, since I have not worked outside the house in a long time, I am not sure one-way or the other. Anyway, have an enjoyable Labor Day and picnic if it is not raining. It is cloudy here in Las Vegas. When I took a bag of trash to the garage, I felt a drop of rain hit my left arm.
Clouds cover the sky
Promise rain in Las Vegas
The day is cooler
Happy Labor Day, the day we celebrate the contribution of the ordinary working person to civilization and society. I sent one of my brothers a text wishing him a “Happy Labor Day”. He responded with a message that said “Happy” and “Labor” are contradictions in terms.
Perhaps, since I have not worked outside the house in a long time, I am not sure one-way or the other. Anyway, have an enjoyable Labor Day and picnic if it is not raining. It is cloudy here in Las Vegas. When I took a bag of trash to the garage, I felt a drop of rain hit my left arm.
Clouds cover the sky
Promise rain in Las Vegas
The day is cooler
Sunday, September 04, 2011
My mother is looking for something
Jamál (Beauty), 16 Asmá’ (Names), 167 BE – Sunday, September 4, 2011 about Sunset Pacific Time
My mother is looking for something, but she cannot tell me what it is. When ever I ask she holds her hands together forming a round or square shape about an inch around. That could be almost anything.
She gets upset because she cannot find it. She gets angry because she thinks I should know what she is about, so I have to figure out what it is and where she put it. Whatever it is I suspect she placed the item on one of her dresser drawers.
The last time I looked in the drawers, I found her extra shoes. Every one of the drawers is full of stuff, so I will have to go through each one until I find something similar to Mom’s description.
Mom has Alzheimer’s disease, which comes with short-term memory lose and anger. The problem is that Mom knows what she is talking about, but cannot think of the name. I just hope that whatever she is looking for it is easy to find or I can find something that resembles the item. My only option is to find small object and keep showing them to her until she finds one she likes.
My mother is looking for something, but she cannot tell me what it is. When ever I ask she holds her hands together forming a round or square shape about an inch around. That could be almost anything.
She gets upset because she cannot find it. She gets angry because she thinks I should know what she is about, so I have to figure out what it is and where she put it. Whatever it is I suspect she placed the item on one of her dresser drawers.
The last time I looked in the drawers, I found her extra shoes. Every one of the drawers is full of stuff, so I will have to go through each one until I find something similar to Mom’s description.
Mom has Alzheimer’s disease, which comes with short-term memory lose and anger. The problem is that Mom knows what she is talking about, but cannot think of the name. I just hope that whatever she is looking for it is easy to find or I can find something that resembles the item. My only option is to find small object and keep showing them to her until she finds one she likes.
Friday, September 02, 2011
Writing.com is 11 years old this month
Writing.com is eleven years old. This is a wonderful place for writers because of the feedback you get on your work. Another nice thing about writing.com is the encouragement and contests. I encourage writers and readers to check out writing.com.
Thursday, September 01, 2011
An evening in September
The sun has set. It was not a spectacular sunset because there are no clouds. It was a pretty sunset, with the sun descending slowly behind the western peaks. The streetlights are on casting pools of pale light at regular intervals along Las Vegas streets.
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Good-bye August
Istijlál (Majesty), 13 Asmá’ (Names), 167 BE – Wednesday, August 31, 2011 about 9:14 PM Pacific Time
Good-bye August
Hello September a month to remember
I am not sure where that poem is going. I may take the second line and write a poem about September 11. It was a traumatic day. It was a day that changed our lives. At that time, I was still working outside the house. I was running late and so did not turn of the television, as a result I did not find out about the Twin Towers until after I arrived at work.
Good-bye August
Hello September a month to remember
I am not sure where that poem is going. I may take the second line and write a poem about September 11. It was a traumatic day. It was a day that changed our lives. At that time, I was still working outside the house. I was running late and so did not turn of the television, as a result I did not find out about the Twin Towers until after I arrived at work.
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
I found a great deodorizer for my car
Fidál (Grace), 11 Asmá’ (Names), 167 BE – Tuesday, August 30, 2011 about 11:45 AM Pacific Time
After I went to the laundromat the other day, I left the bottle of fabric softener sit in the car. I carried all three baskets in the house. I then went back to the car to roll up the windows and lock the doors. The fabric softener and laundry soap sit in the front seat on the passenger side, so I left them both sitting there. When I went back to the car, I could smell the fabric softener rather then my usual weird car smell. Perhaps I should buy a small bottle of fabric softener just to keep in my car.
After I went to the laundromat the other day, I left the bottle of fabric softener sit in the car. I carried all three baskets in the house. I then went back to the car to roll up the windows and lock the doors. The fabric softener and laundry soap sit in the front seat on the passenger side, so I left them both sitting there. When I went back to the car, I could smell the fabric softener rather then my usual weird car smell. Perhaps I should buy a small bottle of fabric softener just to keep in my car.
Sunday, August 28, 2011
The Last Sunday in August
Jamál (Beauty), 9 Asmá’ (Names), 167 BE – Saturday-Sunday, August 28, 2011 about 9:25 AM Pacific Time
It is the last Sunday in August. Mom is sitting on the couch watching the CNN, the news about Tropical Storm Irene. We began watching the news on Friday evening or Saturday morning. We have watched the news about Irene all weekend. This week is busy because Monday and Tuesday I am planning to go to the laundromat. I have enough money this week to do all my laundry, with the exception of the winter blankets. Those I will take to the laundromat at the end of September.
It is the last Sunday in August. I have decided to fix homemade macaroni and cheese. This will last us a couple of day, I hope. Of course, we could eat the entire thing in one day. If that is the case, then I will fix spaghetti with meat sauce. I think I have a can of sauce in the cupboard. I am not attempting to fix homemade spaghetti sauce this week or even next week because I have to buy some ingredients.
It is the last Sunday in August. I am looking forward to September because dreading the coming month does not prevent September from arriving. It will be a busy month and an interesting month. It will not last long enough and I will not accomplish everything I want to accomplish. That is life.
It is the last Sunday in August. Mom is sitting on the couch watching the CNN, the news about Tropical Storm Irene. We began watching the news on Friday evening or Saturday morning. We have watched the news about Irene all weekend. This week is busy because Monday and Tuesday I am planning to go to the laundromat. I have enough money this week to do all my laundry, with the exception of the winter blankets. Those I will take to the laundromat at the end of September.
It is the last Sunday in August. I have decided to fix homemade macaroni and cheese. This will last us a couple of day, I hope. Of course, we could eat the entire thing in one day. If that is the case, then I will fix spaghetti with meat sauce. I think I have a can of sauce in the cupboard. I am not attempting to fix homemade spaghetti sauce this week or even next week because I have to buy some ingredients.
It is the last Sunday in August. I am looking forward to September because dreading the coming month does not prevent September from arriving. It will be a busy month and an interesting month. It will not last long enough and I will not accomplish everything I want to accomplish. That is life.
Saturday, August 27, 2011
Keeping an eye on Hurricane Irene
Jalál (Glory), 8 Asmá’ (Names), 167 BE – Saturday, August 27, 2011 about 3:15 PM Pacific Time
I have watched CNN more today then for the past week. I am keeping an eye on Hurricane Irene. I am listening and watching where the Hurricane is going and where it has been. The reports of this hurricane fascinate me.
The coverage is detailed and interesting. I am 64 years old and I have never witnessed a storm this huge. I remember watching reports of the aftermaths of other hurricane, but I have never watched a report covering the movement of a storm along the coast.
I intend to leave the television on CNN the rest of the day. My mother is watching as well, but I am not sure how much of the report she understands. Mom seems to be content to watch and not comment on the events she is seeing. I am glad I have my computer in the living room near the television because I can listen to the events while I am working online.
I have watched CNN more today then for the past week. I am keeping an eye on Hurricane Irene. I am listening and watching where the Hurricane is going and where it has been. The reports of this hurricane fascinate me.
The coverage is detailed and interesting. I am 64 years old and I have never witnessed a storm this huge. I remember watching reports of the aftermaths of other hurricane, but I have never watched a report covering the movement of a storm along the coast.
I intend to leave the television on CNN the rest of the day. My mother is watching as well, but I am not sure how much of the report she understands. Mom seems to be content to watch and not comment on the events she is seeing. I am glad I have my computer in the living room near the television because I can listen to the events while I am working online.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Temperature Records broken in Las Vegas
Istijlál (Majesty), 6 Asmá’ (Names), 167 BE – Wednesday, August 24, 2011 about 8:30 PM Pacific Time
Today the temperature record was broken. The temperature outside got close to 110 degrees. I do not remember what the meteorologist said because I was dozing. My nap was a result of my morning shopping trip. I do my shopping in the morning because it is cooler, but the trip today wore me out.
I made three stops this morning, but I should have made only one or two. Driving across Las Vegas without a working air conditioner is tiring. I am cutting my stops down to one or two until the excessive heat warnings end.
Today the temperature record was broken. The temperature outside got close to 110 degrees. I do not remember what the meteorologist said because I was dozing. My nap was a result of my morning shopping trip. I do my shopping in the morning because it is cooler, but the trip today wore me out.
I made three stops this morning, but I should have made only one or two. Driving across Las Vegas without a working air conditioner is tiring. I am cutting my stops down to one or two until the excessive heat warnings end.
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
My Mother’s Wardrobe
Fidál (Grace), 4 Asmá’ (Names), 167 BE – Tuesday, August 23, 2011 about 1:30 PM Pacific Time
I was looking for Mom a dress to wear and found she has many nice cloths that she does not wear any more. Some of them are dressy, but we do not go anywhere for her to wear them, so I am going to let her wear them to the daycare center. Mom enjoys wearing them and when she sees them she wants to put them on.
When she takes them off, I have to check them for stains. I also have to be careful when I wash them. I have to wash them in warm water and dry them on low heat. I do not mind that as long as Mom enjoys wearing them. The dresses fit her well, so I will start putting them out for her to wear once a week or so.
I can hang the cloths for Mom to wear on the back of the bathroom door. If I hang an outfit there each night then the next morning it will be out and ready for Mom after she gets her shower. Today, Mom wore a pink dress she was happy when she left the house to go to the daycare center. I think the color of her dress affected her mood because usually it takes her thirty minutes to calm down from receiving a shower. I will have to do a little research to see if color does affect the mood of an Alzheimer’s patient.
I was looking for Mom a dress to wear and found she has many nice cloths that she does not wear any more. Some of them are dressy, but we do not go anywhere for her to wear them, so I am going to let her wear them to the daycare center. Mom enjoys wearing them and when she sees them she wants to put them on.
When she takes them off, I have to check them for stains. I also have to be careful when I wash them. I have to wash them in warm water and dry them on low heat. I do not mind that as long as Mom enjoys wearing them. The dresses fit her well, so I will start putting them out for her to wear once a week or so.
I can hang the cloths for Mom to wear on the back of the bathroom door. If I hang an outfit there each night then the next morning it will be out and ready for Mom after she gets her shower. Today, Mom wore a pink dress she was happy when she left the house to go to the daycare center. I think the color of her dress affected her mood because usually it takes her thirty minutes to calm down from receiving a shower. I will have to do a little research to see if color does affect the mood of an Alzheimer’s patient.
Sunday, August 21, 2011
Partly Cloudy in Las Vegas
Jamál (Beauty), 2 Asmá’ (Names), 167 BE – Sunday, August 21, 2011 about 4:30 PM Pacific Time
It is a beautiful partly cloudy summer day in Las Vegas. A gentle wind is blowing causing the limbs of the trees to wave. It is a nice day to go to a pool or out for a picnic. I wish I could take Mom for a picnic, but that is out of the question. I wish I could go on a picnic myself, which is equally out of the question.
In order to take Mom out, I need to have air conditioning in my car. When I go out by myself, I roll the window down so that it is not too hot in the car, but I cannot roll the windows down when Mom is in the car. Since I do not have a working air conditioner in the car, Mom and I will stay home on this beautiful summer afternoon.
It is a beautiful partly cloudy summer day in Las Vegas. A gentle wind is blowing causing the limbs of the trees to wave. It is a nice day to go to a pool or out for a picnic. I wish I could take Mom for a picnic, but that is out of the question. I wish I could go on a picnic myself, which is equally out of the question.
In order to take Mom out, I need to have air conditioning in my car. When I go out by myself, I roll the window down so that it is not too hot in the car, but I cannot roll the windows down when Mom is in the car. Since I do not have a working air conditioner in the car, Mom and I will stay home on this beautiful summer afternoon.
Saturday, August 20, 2011
A Good Saturday in Las Vegas
Jalál (Glory), 1 Asmá’ (Names), 167 BE – Saturday, August 20, 2011 about 1:15 PM Pacific Time
It is a good day. Mom is in a talkative mood. Mom is in a good mood. She ate a good breakfast and lunch. For breakfast, she ate two strawberry Pop Tarts grapes, a banana, and coffee. For lunch, she ate a smile piece of pork and celery. I used orange juice to marinade the pork and fixed it with celery. For supper, I think I will fix her a peanut butter sandwich and cereal.
It is a good day. It is a nice day in Las Vegas. I forgot what the meteorologist said about the temperatures, but I suspect they will be in the triple digits again. Since we have a working air condition and I do not have to go anywhere today, the out door temperature does not bother me.
It is a good day. Mom is in a talkative mood. Mom is in a good mood. She ate a good breakfast and lunch. For breakfast, she ate two strawberry Pop Tarts grapes, a banana, and coffee. For lunch, she ate a smile piece of pork and celery. I used orange juice to marinade the pork and fixed it with celery. For supper, I think I will fix her a peanut butter sandwich and cereal.
It is a good day. It is a nice day in Las Vegas. I forgot what the meteorologist said about the temperatures, but I suspect they will be in the triple digits again. Since we have a working air condition and I do not have to go anywhere today, the out door temperature does not bother me.
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Thankful Thursday
Istijlál (Majesty), 18 Kamál (Perfection), 167 BE – Thursday, August 18, 2011 about 2:20 PM Pacific Time
It is Thursday again; it is time to make a gratitude list. Sometimes I get so involved in the mundane activities of life, that I have difficulties finding items for my list. This is not one of those days.
I am grateful that I found three pairs of Mom’s shoes in her dresser drawers.
I am grateful that I have a microwave to use when I warm up coffee.
I am grateful that I bought a dozen brown eggs when I went to the grocery story on Monday.
I am grateful for the breeze this afternoon.
I am grateful for the clouds decorating the blue sky.
I am grateful that my air conditioning unit works.
I am grateful that Mom can go to adult daycare five days a week.
I am grateful that I have a package of chocolate chip cookie mix sitting on the kitchen cabinet.
I am grateful that I have a refrigerator that works.
I am grateful that I have a high-speed internet connection.
It is Thursday again; it is time to make a gratitude list. Sometimes I get so involved in the mundane activities of life, that I have difficulties finding items for my list. This is not one of those days.
I am grateful that I found three pairs of Mom’s shoes in her dresser drawers.
I am grateful that I have a microwave to use when I warm up coffee.
I am grateful that I bought a dozen brown eggs when I went to the grocery story on Monday.
I am grateful for the breeze this afternoon.
I am grateful for the clouds decorating the blue sky.
I am grateful that my air conditioning unit works.
I am grateful that Mom can go to adult daycare five days a week.
I am grateful that I have a package of chocolate chip cookie mix sitting on the kitchen cabinet.
I am grateful that I have a refrigerator that works.
I am grateful that I have a high-speed internet connection.
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Weary Wednesday
‘Idál (Justice), 17 Kamál (Perfection), 167 BE – Wednesday, August 17, 2011 about 1:00 PM Pacific Time
The title of this entry was almost Wintery Wednesday, because my system is running like molasses in January. Early this morning it ran fine, faster anyway, but when I got back on it slowed down. Then my browser had difficulty finding the website I wanted.
I think part of the problem was my anti-virus program was updating. Because when I used Windows Task Manager to check if Real Player was running, it did not show up on the list. I know if Real Player is running that will slow my system down, but it does not prevent the browser from locating websites.
I am tired and stressed. A slow computer does not help. A printer I cannot use does not help. The printer is my own fault because I let the print cartridges run out. I cannot get any more print cartridges until next week. Therefore, I will not be able to print, which could be a problem. I will simply have to live with that.
What I would like to know now is why my computer is slowing down. It is extremely difficult to work when my computer is slow and I cannot access a website. I have a high-speed modem, so that is not the problem. I will eventually figure out the problem and solve it; at least, I hope so. Right now I am tired.
The title of this entry was almost Wintery Wednesday, because my system is running like molasses in January. Early this morning it ran fine, faster anyway, but when I got back on it slowed down. Then my browser had difficulty finding the website I wanted.
I think part of the problem was my anti-virus program was updating. Because when I used Windows Task Manager to check if Real Player was running, it did not show up on the list. I know if Real Player is running that will slow my system down, but it does not prevent the browser from locating websites.
I am tired and stressed. A slow computer does not help. A printer I cannot use does not help. The printer is my own fault because I let the print cartridges run out. I cannot get any more print cartridges until next week. Therefore, I will not be able to print, which could be a problem. I will simply have to live with that.
What I would like to know now is why my computer is slowing down. It is extremely difficult to work when my computer is slow and I cannot access a website. I have a high-speed modem, so that is not the problem. I will eventually figure out the problem and solve it; at least, I hope so. Right now I am tired.
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
Traumatic Tuesday
Fidál (Grace), 16 Kamál (Perfection), 167 BE – Tuesday, August 16, 2011 about 3:30 PM Pacific Time
All right, perhaps traumatic is an over statement. Any way I figured out why my printer only prints in color, specifically red. Washed out red is a better description because I can barely read it. Obviously, my printer is out of ink. At least, I hope that is the problem. The printer usually sends an error message when the ink is low, but not this time.
In fact, the printer is not sending any error message. The paper was stuck in it earlier and I go no error message. I suspect there is something more wrong then simply no ink in the print cartridge. I need to get two print cartridges so that I can print and copy. I can tell when the printer is out of paper or the paper is jammed, so I do not need to see error messages for that.
The situation with the printer is just one more issue for me to deal with. I have other issues and lately they seem to mount, all most like my laundry, which I need to do sometime this week. I will post this now before it became a rant and I become more stressed.
All right, perhaps traumatic is an over statement. Any way I figured out why my printer only prints in color, specifically red. Washed out red is a better description because I can barely read it. Obviously, my printer is out of ink. At least, I hope that is the problem. The printer usually sends an error message when the ink is low, but not this time.
In fact, the printer is not sending any error message. The paper was stuck in it earlier and I go no error message. I suspect there is something more wrong then simply no ink in the print cartridge. I need to get two print cartridges so that I can print and copy. I can tell when the printer is out of paper or the paper is jammed, so I do not need to see error messages for that.
The situation with the printer is just one more issue for me to deal with. I have other issues and lately they seem to mount, all most like my laundry, which I need to do sometime this week. I will post this now before it became a rant and I become more stressed.
Monday, August 15, 2011
Memorable Monday
Kamál (Perfection), 15 Kamál (Perfection), 167 BE – Monday, August 15, 2011 about 6:40 PM Pacific Time
I received my Medicare card today. The effective date is not until December 1, 2011, but the time will pass quickly. The first thing I have to do is sit down and read the booklet that came with the card. I glanced through the book while I waited for my mother to come home from adult daycare, but I did not have the time to read it carefully.
Memorable Monday
My Medicare card arrive
A new phase of life
Friday I have an appointment to investigate a Medicare Advantage Plan. I need to read the booklet carefully before then. I also need to write down some questions to ask at the seminar on August 19.
I received my Medicare card today. The effective date is not until December 1, 2011, but the time will pass quickly. The first thing I have to do is sit down and read the booklet that came with the card. I glanced through the book while I waited for my mother to come home from adult daycare, but I did not have the time to read it carefully.
Memorable Monday
My Medicare card arrive
A new phase of life
Friday I have an appointment to investigate a Medicare Advantage Plan. I need to read the booklet carefully before then. I also need to write down some questions to ask at the seminar on August 19.
Sunday, August 14, 2011
The choice between laundry and fresh vegetables
Jamál (Beauty), 14 Kamál (Perfection), 167 BE – Sunday, August 14, 2011 about 9:30 AM Pacific Time
The choice this month is washing laundry and having fresh vegetables on the table. I know that sounds like a weird choice to have to make, but that is the choice. There is enough money in one account to pay the Power bill and go to the laundromat or buy fresh vegetables.
I like fresh vegetables and my mother likes them, we also like to have clean cloths. In the refrigerator, I have a bag of celery, a head of cabbage, two zucchini, and an individual watermelon. In the freezer, I have lima beans, green beans, corn, and a bag of beans. I might be able to spread those items over a week, depending on how hungry Mom and I get during that week. After that, my only option is to use canned vegetables for the rest of the month and probably next month as well.
I will pay the power bill online and then on Monday or Tuesday, I will go to the bank and get $20.00 to do the laundry. Considering I will have about four basket of laundry by then, it will mean going to the laundromat two days this week. I will be so glad when the drainpipe behind the washer is fixed because then I can do laundry at home.
The choice this month is washing laundry and having fresh vegetables on the table. I know that sounds like a weird choice to have to make, but that is the choice. There is enough money in one account to pay the Power bill and go to the laundromat or buy fresh vegetables.
I like fresh vegetables and my mother likes them, we also like to have clean cloths. In the refrigerator, I have a bag of celery, a head of cabbage, two zucchini, and an individual watermelon. In the freezer, I have lima beans, green beans, corn, and a bag of beans. I might be able to spread those items over a week, depending on how hungry Mom and I get during that week. After that, my only option is to use canned vegetables for the rest of the month and probably next month as well.
I will pay the power bill online and then on Monday or Tuesday, I will go to the bank and get $20.00 to do the laundry. Considering I will have about four basket of laundry by then, it will mean going to the laundromat two days this week. I will be so glad when the drainpipe behind the washer is fixed because then I can do laundry at home.
Saturday, August 13, 2011
What is joy?
Jalál (Glory), 13 Kamál (Perfection), 167 BE – Saturday, August 13, 2011 about 3:30 PM Pacific Time
The August 10, 2011 edition of the writing.com spiritual newsletter asks, “What is joy?” My answer to that question is this. Joy is a spiritual attribute. Joy gives a person’s soul wings and helps an individual overcome any difficulty.
One of the things that give me joy is a summer shower. It rained this morning in Las Vegas, in my neighborhood anyway. I watch the gentle raindrops fall and I smiled. I inhaled the aroma of the cool summer shower and I laughed. The rain gave me joy. The rain made me happy.
My joy came from more then just the necessity of rain. We need rain in Las Vegas, but that is not why I smiled. I smiled because the rain is a blessing from God. I smiled because the rain reminded me of angels. It reminded me of angels because there is a saying about each raindrop being carried to earth by an angel.
What is joy? Joy is watching the raindrops fall. Joy is feeling the cool raindrops on my exposed face and arms. Joy comes from knowing I roll up my car windows before the rain started. Joy is watching the rain soak into the hard dry ground of my front yard.
The August 10, 2011 edition of the writing.com spiritual newsletter asks, “What is joy?” My answer to that question is this. Joy is a spiritual attribute. Joy gives a person’s soul wings and helps an individual overcome any difficulty.
One of the things that give me joy is a summer shower. It rained this morning in Las Vegas, in my neighborhood anyway. I watch the gentle raindrops fall and I smiled. I inhaled the aroma of the cool summer shower and I laughed. The rain gave me joy. The rain made me happy.
My joy came from more then just the necessity of rain. We need rain in Las Vegas, but that is not why I smiled. I smiled because the rain is a blessing from God. I smiled because the rain reminded me of angels. It reminded me of angels because there is a saying about each raindrop being carried to earth by an angel.
What is joy? Joy is watching the raindrops fall. Joy is feeling the cool raindrops on my exposed face and arms. Joy comes from knowing I roll up my car windows before the rain started. Joy is watching the rain soak into the hard dry ground of my front yard.
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Turning that Golden number in December
Istijlál (Majesty), 11 Kamál (Perfection), 167 BE – Thursday, August 11, 2011 about 3:05 PM Pacific Time
I am turning 65 on December 24 and able to receive Medicare. I have struggled for several years because of medical cost. I have not had medical insurance because I could not afford it. That did not prevent me from going to a doctor when necessary. It made getting medication more difficult.
I am looking into Medicare supplement or advantage plans. I do not know which on I will chose. I made two appointments for seminars to investigate the plans. I will look at them and see which one fits my circumstances. I am not sure what each of the different plans entail, but I will find out.
I am looking forward to this process. I am looking forward to this adventure. I know that sounds strange, but that is how I feel. Perhaps it is the idea of doing something completely different from my normal routine. Sometimes my normal routine is boring and encourages rut getting deeper and deeper. I have to look at my dresses and see what I have to wear to the seminars.
I am turning 65 on December 24 and able to receive Medicare. I have struggled for several years because of medical cost. I have not had medical insurance because I could not afford it. That did not prevent me from going to a doctor when necessary. It made getting medication more difficult.
I am looking into Medicare supplement or advantage plans. I do not know which on I will chose. I made two appointments for seminars to investigate the plans. I will look at them and see which one fits my circumstances. I am not sure what each of the different plans entail, but I will find out.
I am looking forward to this process. I am looking forward to this adventure. I know that sounds strange, but that is how I feel. Perhaps it is the idea of doing something completely different from my normal routine. Sometimes my normal routine is boring and encourages rut getting deeper and deeper. I have to look at my dresses and see what I have to wear to the seminars.
Tuesday, August 09, 2011
My Mother’s Gelatin Fruit Salad
Fidál (Grace), 9 Kamál (Perfection), 167 BE – Tuesday, August 9, 2011 about 9:55 AM Pacific Time
I made Mom’s gelatin fruit salad last night. I had two 15 oz. cans of mixed fruit in the cupboard, so I need only the gelatin to make the salad. When I went to Smith’s Food and Drug store last week, I bought four 0.3 oz. packages of flavored gelatin, two raspberry flavored and two cherry flavored.
Last night, I boiled some water and mixed the raspberry gelatin. I used two cups of boiling water, one cup per package and dissolved the gelatin. After dissolving the gelatin, I mixed one cup of juice from the mixed fruit and one cup of cold water. I then added the 15 oz. of mixed fruit and put the dish in the refrigerator. When Mom returns home this afternoon, I will fix her a dish for her supper.
I made Mom’s gelatin fruit salad last night. I had two 15 oz. cans of mixed fruit in the cupboard, so I need only the gelatin to make the salad. When I went to Smith’s Food and Drug store last week, I bought four 0.3 oz. packages of flavored gelatin, two raspberry flavored and two cherry flavored.
Last night, I boiled some water and mixed the raspberry gelatin. I used two cups of boiling water, one cup per package and dissolved the gelatin. After dissolving the gelatin, I mixed one cup of juice from the mixed fruit and one cup of cold water. I then added the 15 oz. of mixed fruit and put the dish in the refrigerator. When Mom returns home this afternoon, I will fix her a dish for her supper.
Monday, August 08, 2011
I miss going to the movies
Kamál (Perfection), 8 Kamál (Perfection), 167 BE – Monday, August 8, 2011 about 7:10 PM Pacific Time
It has been over a year since I went out to a movie. It has been so long since I saw a movie that I do not remember the name of the last movie I saw. I think it may have been a Lord of the Rings movie, but I am not sure.
I have not been to a movie since I got my dentures. I want to go to a movie, buy a bag of buttered popcorn, a large soda, and a chocolate candy bar. I can describe eating those items with my natural teeth, but not with my dentures. All right, it has been so long since I went to a movie I am looking for an excuse to spend the money and see a movie. The next thing I need to do is to decide what movie I want to see.
It has been over a year since I went out to a movie. It has been so long since I saw a movie that I do not remember the name of the last movie I saw. I think it may have been a Lord of the Rings movie, but I am not sure.
I have not been to a movie since I got my dentures. I want to go to a movie, buy a bag of buttered popcorn, a large soda, and a chocolate candy bar. I can describe eating those items with my natural teeth, but not with my dentures. All right, it has been so long since I went to a movie I am looking for an excuse to spend the money and see a movie. The next thing I need to do is to decide what movie I want to see.
Sunday, August 07, 2011
Watching the wind blow in Las Vegas
Jamál (Beauty), 7 Kamál (Perfection), 167 BE – Sunday, August 7, 2011 about 2:20 PM Pacific Time
The wind picked up this afternoon. It is not blowing hard, but it is swaying the limbs of trees. I enjoy watching the wind blow because it brings back memories of my childhood. As I look out the window, I remember the way the wind blew through the cottonwood tree in my Grandparent’s front yard.
The cottonwood tree and my Grandparent’s yard are gone. They still live in my memory. The way the wind moved the cottonwood leaves remain as fresh today as when I was a child.
Cottonwood leaves dance
Memories from my childhood
Come when the wind blows
The wind picked up this afternoon. It is not blowing hard, but it is swaying the limbs of trees. I enjoy watching the wind blow because it brings back memories of my childhood. As I look out the window, I remember the way the wind blew through the cottonwood tree in my Grandparent’s front yard.
The cottonwood tree and my Grandparent’s yard are gone. They still live in my memory. The way the wind moved the cottonwood leaves remain as fresh today as when I was a child.
Cottonwood leaves dance
Memories from my childhood
Come when the wind blows
Saturday, August 06, 2011
Heat Pump problems in Las Vegas
Jalál (Glory), 6 Kamál (Perfection), 167 BE – Saturday, August 6, 2011 about 6:45 PM
It has been a long day. I had to have the air condition fixed (again). Yesterday, it went out so I called company that takes care of the normal maintenance on the unit. A tech came today, explained the problem and told me how much it would cost. I suppose I should have called the home warranty people, but it would have taken them all weekend to get someone to fix it, which would mean we would be without cool air until Monday.
I did not look forward to going all weekend without cool air, so I had the unit fixed and paid for it myself. It will put us short this month, but with temperatures in the triple digits, I just could not face a weekend without cool air.
It has been a long day. I had to have the air condition fixed (again). Yesterday, it went out so I called company that takes care of the normal maintenance on the unit. A tech came today, explained the problem and told me how much it would cost. I suppose I should have called the home warranty people, but it would have taken them all weekend to get someone to fix it, which would mean we would be without cool air until Monday.
I did not look forward to going all weekend without cool air, so I had the unit fixed and paid for it myself. It will put us short this month, but with temperatures in the triple digits, I just could not face a weekend without cool air.
Friday, August 05, 2011
A triple digit afternoon in Las Vegas
This afternoon it is sunny with a breeze. The temperature is in the triple digits. I have all the area fans going in the house. I am going to make Mom and me some ice water. I was going to fix Mom a baked potato with carrots for her supper, but I am not sure now.
We have a heat pump that is supposed to help keep the house cool. The main problem is that the unit is too small for the house. I have had the unit repaired twice this year and once last year. I am worried about it working properly. Sometimes I think it works the way it should, given that we need another unit to keep this house properly cooled.
Sometimes I think I worry over nothing. I look for things to worry about and I find them. Now I am worried that the unit is not working properly. The unit has been working properly and it is about 105 degrees outside. I am probably worried because of an over active imagination.
I am going to post this and then make myself a nice cold glass of ice water while I am waiting for Mom to come home.
We have a heat pump that is supposed to help keep the house cool. The main problem is that the unit is too small for the house. I have had the unit repaired twice this year and once last year. I am worried about it working properly. Sometimes I think it works the way it should, given that we need another unit to keep this house properly cooled.
Sometimes I think I worry over nothing. I look for things to worry about and I find them. Now I am worried that the unit is not working properly. The unit has been working properly and it is about 105 degrees outside. I am probably worried because of an over active imagination.
I am going to post this and then make myself a nice cold glass of ice water while I am waiting for Mom to come home.
Thursday, August 04, 2011
Mom and the Daycare Center
Istiqlál (Independence), 5 Kamál (Perfection), 167 BE – Thursday, August 4, 2011 about 7:55 PM Pacific Time
It is Thursday evening and Mom is asleep. She comes home from the daycare center eats, watches a little television, and goes to bed. When Mom lies down, she says she is only going to sleep ten minutes, but she always sleeps all night.
During the week, Mom eats most of her meals at the center. There are activities and other things in which she can participate. When Mom comes home she seems happy, at least most of the time; Mom does not remember much of what she does, but that is the Alzheimer’s disease.
Going to the daycare gets her out of the house, which helps because she comes home in a nice mood. Sometimes she comes home crying, but that is the Alzheimer’s disease. Fortunately, Mom does not realize she has it. I think that is a blessing for her, it is difficult for me because I have to be careful what I say.
It is Thursday evening and Mom is asleep. She comes home from the daycare center eats, watches a little television, and goes to bed. When Mom lies down, she says she is only going to sleep ten minutes, but she always sleeps all night.
During the week, Mom eats most of her meals at the center. There are activities and other things in which she can participate. When Mom comes home she seems happy, at least most of the time; Mom does not remember much of what she does, but that is the Alzheimer’s disease.
Going to the daycare gets her out of the house, which helps because she comes home in a nice mood. Sometimes she comes home crying, but that is the Alzheimer’s disease. Fortunately, Mom does not realize she has it. I think that is a blessing for her, it is difficult for me because I have to be careful what I say.
Tuesday, August 02, 2011
I am in a rut in Las Vegas
Fidál (Grace), 2 Kamál (Perfection), 167 BE – Tuesday, August 2, 2011 about 2:55 PM Pacific Time
I think I am in a rut. Each day it seems like I am running in circles doing the same thing over and over. I get up in the morning and then I get Mom up, which is a project in itself. I fix Mom breakfast. I give Mom her meds. The CNA and I get Mom bathed and dressed. One person cannot bath Mom because she does not like the idea of someone else giving her a bath.
Mom has Alzheimer’s disease. Mom does not realize she has this disease and therefore does not understand why someone else gives her a bath. After the bath, Mom normally calms down and is happy to look at T.V. or talk until the daycare bus comes.
After Mom leaves then I do the things I have to do. Since I have to be home by 3:30 PM, I have to spread my errands out over the week. It takes me longer to get everything accomplished, but I eventually get it done. I pay as many bills as I can online because that saves time.
I miss going out at night, but I cannot leave Mom alone. It is difficult to get Mom out of the house and into the car. Mom does not want to leave the house; in fact, it is difficult to keep Mom up late at night because she wants to go to bed early. Mom is happy staying home.
I think I will plan to go to a movie. I have no idea what is playing and it does not matter. I have not been to a movie in a long time. I can go to a movie after Mom leaves for the daycare center, this will let me get back to the house before she gets home in the afternoon.
I think I am in a rut. Each day it seems like I am running in circles doing the same thing over and over. I get up in the morning and then I get Mom up, which is a project in itself. I fix Mom breakfast. I give Mom her meds. The CNA and I get Mom bathed and dressed. One person cannot bath Mom because she does not like the idea of someone else giving her a bath.
Mom has Alzheimer’s disease. Mom does not realize she has this disease and therefore does not understand why someone else gives her a bath. After the bath, Mom normally calms down and is happy to look at T.V. or talk until the daycare bus comes.
After Mom leaves then I do the things I have to do. Since I have to be home by 3:30 PM, I have to spread my errands out over the week. It takes me longer to get everything accomplished, but I eventually get it done. I pay as many bills as I can online because that saves time.
I miss going out at night, but I cannot leave Mom alone. It is difficult to get Mom out of the house and into the car. Mom does not want to leave the house; in fact, it is difficult to keep Mom up late at night because she wants to go to bed early. Mom is happy staying home.
I think I will plan to go to a movie. I have no idea what is playing and it does not matter. I have not been to a movie in a long time. I can go to a movie after Mom leaves for the daycare center, this will let me get back to the house before she gets home in the afternoon.
Monday, August 01, 2011
August memories
Kamál (Perfection), 1 Kamál (Perfection), 167 BE – Monday, August 1, 2011 about 7:25 PM Pacific Time
August always brings back memories. The memories that I have now concern attending the Feast of Kamal (Perfection). I miss attending the nineteen-day feast; I remember attending the Feast of Perfection with my mother. Now, Mom is usually in bed by 5:30 or 6:00 PM and since I cannot leave her alone; I stay home as well.
Mom likes the prayers revealed by Baha’u’llah, since she has difficulty reading the prayer book I read the prayers for her. She sits next to me on the couch and listens. I know she hears me because, even when she is not wearing her hearing aids, she sits quietly and listens. She also smiles when I am reading the prayers.
August always brings back memories. The memories that I have now concern attending the Feast of Kamal (Perfection). I miss attending the nineteen-day feast; I remember attending the Feast of Perfection with my mother. Now, Mom is usually in bed by 5:30 or 6:00 PM and since I cannot leave her alone; I stay home as well.
Mom likes the prayers revealed by Baha’u’llah, since she has difficulty reading the prayer book I read the prayers for her. She sits next to me on the couch and listens. I know she hears me because, even when she is not wearing her hearing aids, she sits quietly and listens. She also smiles when I am reading the prayers.
Sunday, July 31, 2011
A new week begins in Las Vegas
Jamál (Beauty), 19 Kalimát (Words), 167 BE – Sunday, July 31, 2011 about 2:38 PM Pacific Time
I new week begins, a new chance to achieve my writing goals and my housekeeping goals. I have a full week planned, four of those days I have to leave the house. On Tuesday and Thursday, I have laundry to do. I realized today, when I started gathered our cloths in the laundry baskets, I would have to spend two days at the laundromat.
I hope two days is all I have to spend washing cloths because I have other things to do beside laundry. If I do laundry in the morning, then I have a little time before Mom comes home. I do not accomplish much after Mom gets home, at least not while she is awake. After Mom goes to bed, I have a change to get work done.
On Monday, I have an errand to run and then on Wednesday or Friday do some shopping. There is no getting out of the errand or I would stay home all day Monday. Monday is August 1; I like to stay home on the first of the month because I have work online to do. I will get the important stuff accomplished; the rest will have to wait.
I new week begins, a new chance to achieve my writing goals and my housekeeping goals. I have a full week planned, four of those days I have to leave the house. On Tuesday and Thursday, I have laundry to do. I realized today, when I started gathered our cloths in the laundry baskets, I would have to spend two days at the laundromat.
I hope two days is all I have to spend washing cloths because I have other things to do beside laundry. If I do laundry in the morning, then I have a little time before Mom comes home. I do not accomplish much after Mom gets home, at least not while she is awake. After Mom goes to bed, I have a change to get work done.
On Monday, I have an errand to run and then on Wednesday or Friday do some shopping. There is no getting out of the errand or I would stay home all day Monday. Monday is August 1; I like to stay home on the first of the month because I have work online to do. I will get the important stuff accomplished; the rest will have to wait.
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
New Experiences are good for me
‘Idál (Justice), 15 Kalimát (Words), 167 BE – Wednesday, July 27, 2011 about 5:35 PM Pacific Time
They say that new experiences keep a person young. I know they keep my muse on its toes. Today, I went to a podiatrist for the first time in my life. I went because my regular doctor wrote a referral. It turns out I have Plantar Fasciitis and need to do rehabilitation exercises every morning.
The doctor gave me a handout giving information about the problem. The handout contained several exercises. The first exercise I will do, beginning on Thursday morning, is the standing calf stretch. I also need to get some new shoes, so I will plan a shopping trip to a shoe store or department store.
They say that new experiences keep a person young. I know they keep my muse on its toes. Today, I went to a podiatrist for the first time in my life. I went because my regular doctor wrote a referral. It turns out I have Plantar Fasciitis and need to do rehabilitation exercises every morning.
The doctor gave me a handout giving information about the problem. The handout contained several exercises. The first exercise I will do, beginning on Thursday morning, is the standing calf stretch. I also need to get some new shoes, so I will plan a shopping trip to a shoe store or department store.
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Tuesday is Laundry day for me in Las Vegas
Fidál (Grace), 14 Kalimát (Words), 167 BE – Tuesday, July 26, 2011 about 6:12 PM Pacific Time
My grandmother always had one day of the week to do laundry, she was flexible enough about “laundry day” so that she could change the day when necessary. Grandma did laundry on Saturday, if it did not rain or it was summer. In summer, we went to Lake Blackwell on the weekend, so Grandma did laundry on Friday.
Grandma did not wash cloths on rainy days. She hung her cloths on a cloths line in the backyard, so if it rained the cloths would not dry. If it was a rainy Saturday, my Grandma Newland would wait until Monday to wash cloths.
Since I go to a laundromat, I do not have to worry about drying cloths. I have decided to do laundry on Tuesday. Today, I wash three baskets, which is my limit when it concerns carrying cloths into the laundromat or back to the car after the cloths are dry. This does have its disadvantages because if I have more then three baskets, I have to wait until I recovered from lugging full laundry baskets back and forth from the car. However, eventually I will catch up on the laundry.
My grandmother always had one day of the week to do laundry, she was flexible enough about “laundry day” so that she could change the day when necessary. Grandma did laundry on Saturday, if it did not rain or it was summer. In summer, we went to Lake Blackwell on the weekend, so Grandma did laundry on Friday.
Grandma did not wash cloths on rainy days. She hung her cloths on a cloths line in the backyard, so if it rained the cloths would not dry. If it was a rainy Saturday, my Grandma Newland would wait until Monday to wash cloths.
Since I go to a laundromat, I do not have to worry about drying cloths. I have decided to do laundry on Tuesday. Today, I wash three baskets, which is my limit when it concerns carrying cloths into the laundromat or back to the car after the cloths are dry. This does have its disadvantages because if I have more then three baskets, I have to wait until I recovered from lugging full laundry baskets back and forth from the car. However, eventually I will catch up on the laundry.
Monday, July 25, 2011
Monday Morning Tears
Kamál (Perfection), 13 Kalimát (Words), 167 BE – Monday, July 25, 2011 about 8:54 AM Pacific Time
Mom cried all morning and when I ask her what was wrong she said “Nothing.” I never know why Mom is crying and I suspect she does not know either. It has to do with the Alzheimer’s disease. I think Mom cries because of her perception of life and other people. The only thing I can do is make sure she takes her medication and try to keep her mind occupied so that she does not cry.
Mom enjoys some things. Sometimes Mom laughs at things she hears or sees on television. Mom likes to listen to the Long Healing Prayer, so I sit down beside her and read it. She will sit quietly with her eyes closed while I read the prayer. Mom loves to listen to all the prayers revealed by the Bab and Baha’u’llah. Everyday I sit beside her on the couch and read one or two prayers for her.
Mom does not cry when I read the prayers to her. She has difficulty seeing, so she cannot read them herself. Mom cannot do much of anything anymore. Alzheimer’s and other age related issues prevent her doing the things she used to do.
Mom cried all morning and when I ask her what was wrong she said “Nothing.” I never know why Mom is crying and I suspect she does not know either. It has to do with the Alzheimer’s disease. I think Mom cries because of her perception of life and other people. The only thing I can do is make sure she takes her medication and try to keep her mind occupied so that she does not cry.
Mom enjoys some things. Sometimes Mom laughs at things she hears or sees on television. Mom likes to listen to the Long Healing Prayer, so I sit down beside her and read it. She will sit quietly with her eyes closed while I read the prayer. Mom loves to listen to all the prayers revealed by the Bab and Baha’u’llah. Everyday I sit beside her on the couch and read one or two prayers for her.
Mom does not cry when I read the prayers to her. She has difficulty seeing, so she cannot read them herself. Mom cannot do much of anything anymore. Alzheimer’s and other age related issues prevent her doing the things she used to do.
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Making a grocery list
Jamál (Beauty), 12 Kalimát (Words), 167 BE – Sunday, July 24, 2011 about 11:48 AM Pacific Time
I began making a grocery list today. I have to buy a couple of items this week. The first thing on the list is hearing aid batteries. Mom has two hearing aids, so I have to buy enough batteries to last the next four weeks. Since I normally change the batteries once a week, I have to buy a pack of eight batteries.
I am not going to rely on my memory for the right battery size. The first thing on the grocery list is “Hearing Aid batteries size 312 BC312A 1.4V (AGX) (brown tab)”, so that I know precisely what batteries I need to get. I am checking online for some coupons, but I have not yet found any. I did fined batteries.com, but, since I do not have enough in my PayPal account to pay for them, I will buy the batteries in a grocery or drug store this time.
I have to do some comparison-shopping to see where I can save money on the batteries. I have to save as much money as possible because I need to have the drainpipe behind the washer raised to 42”. That is the next goal because I am tired of going to the laundromat when I have a working washer. The only problem is that the drainpipe overflows in the spin cycle.
I began making a grocery list today. I have to buy a couple of items this week. The first thing on the list is hearing aid batteries. Mom has two hearing aids, so I have to buy enough batteries to last the next four weeks. Since I normally change the batteries once a week, I have to buy a pack of eight batteries.
I am not going to rely on my memory for the right battery size. The first thing on the grocery list is “Hearing Aid batteries size 312 BC312A 1.4V (AGX) (brown tab)”, so that I know precisely what batteries I need to get. I am checking online for some coupons, but I have not yet found any. I did fined batteries.com, but, since I do not have enough in my PayPal account to pay for them, I will buy the batteries in a grocery or drug store this time.
I have to do some comparison-shopping to see where I can save money on the batteries. I have to save as much money as possible because I need to have the drainpipe behind the washer raised to 42”. That is the next goal because I am tired of going to the laundromat when I have a working washer. The only problem is that the drainpipe overflows in the spin cycle.
Saturday, July 23, 2011
At home in Las Vegas
Jalál (Glory), 11 Kalimát (Words), 167 BE – Saturday, July 23, 2011 about 5:49 PM Pacific Time
This morning, I made orange steak with mashed potatoes and gravy. I used orange juice to marinade the stake and then fried it in the electric skillet. The potatoes were instant and the gravy was homemade. The steak tasted and looked good. The gravy tasted good, but it did not look as I thought it should. I am out of practice making gravy from scratch.
My gravy looked too thin and it contained lumps. I do not like gravy with lumps, but since I made it, I ate it. Mom did not complain, but then she never complains about the food. Sometimes she does not want to take her medication; however, she always wants to eat. I asked her about the food, she said it tasted good and did not say anything about the lumps in the gravy.
Right now, Mom is dozing on the couch. I have to get her up and to her bedroom. The couch is not comfortable, when I fall asleep laying on it my back hurts when I wake up. I am not looking forward to getting Mom up because she gets upset and even angry once she decides that the couch is her bed. Taking care of someone suffering from Alzheimer’s disease is an education.
This morning, I made orange steak with mashed potatoes and gravy. I used orange juice to marinade the stake and then fried it in the electric skillet. The potatoes were instant and the gravy was homemade. The steak tasted and looked good. The gravy tasted good, but it did not look as I thought it should. I am out of practice making gravy from scratch.
My gravy looked too thin and it contained lumps. I do not like gravy with lumps, but since I made it, I ate it. Mom did not complain, but then she never complains about the food. Sometimes she does not want to take her medication; however, she always wants to eat. I asked her about the food, she said it tasted good and did not say anything about the lumps in the gravy.
Right now, Mom is dozing on the couch. I have to get her up and to her bedroom. The couch is not comfortable, when I fall asleep laying on it my back hurts when I wake up. I am not looking forward to getting Mom up because she gets upset and even angry once she decides that the couch is her bed. Taking care of someone suffering from Alzheimer’s disease is an education.
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Convincing my mother to eat
‘Idál (Justice), 8 Kalimát (Words), 167 BE – Wednesday, July 20, 2011 about 5:30 PM Pacific Time
I finally figured out how to get my mother to eat. The discovery was an accident. I had some fresh frozen peas, green beans, carrots, and corn, in the freezer. I made soup with the vegetables and a shrimp bullion cub, Mom loved it. She ate everything in the soup bowl and asked for seconds. We finished that soup on Monday.
On Tuesday, I mixed some canned green beans, carrots, and peas with a can of chicken. Tomorrow, I have to fix something else, but I have not decided what. I still have some frozen corn and green beans in the freezer, perhaps I can mix a can of peas and carrots with those. I still have a couple of cans of chicken I could mix with that.
On July 30, I will pick up a fruit and vegetable box I ordered earlier this month. It contains ears of corn, squash, cabbage and carrots; I can fix a salad and fried squash or fix a zucchini salad; Mom would like that. In the mean time, Mom will have to be satisfied with canned fruit and vegetables. In addition, to a box of instant potatoes, have some pork chops and a couple of small steaks in the freezer; perhaps we will have those with some potatoes and gravy on Saturday. Mom likes mashed potatoes and gravy.
I finally figured out how to get my mother to eat. The discovery was an accident. I had some fresh frozen peas, green beans, carrots, and corn, in the freezer. I made soup with the vegetables and a shrimp bullion cub, Mom loved it. She ate everything in the soup bowl and asked for seconds. We finished that soup on Monday.
On Tuesday, I mixed some canned green beans, carrots, and peas with a can of chicken. Tomorrow, I have to fix something else, but I have not decided what. I still have some frozen corn and green beans in the freezer, perhaps I can mix a can of peas and carrots with those. I still have a couple of cans of chicken I could mix with that.
On July 30, I will pick up a fruit and vegetable box I ordered earlier this month. It contains ears of corn, squash, cabbage and carrots; I can fix a salad and fried squash or fix a zucchini salad; Mom would like that. In the mean time, Mom will have to be satisfied with canned fruit and vegetables. In addition, to a box of instant potatoes, have some pork chops and a couple of small steaks in the freezer; perhaps we will have those with some potatoes and gravy on Saturday. Mom likes mashed potatoes and gravy.
Monday, July 18, 2011
Monday afternoon in Las Vegas
Kamál (Perfection), 6 Kalimát (Words), 167 BE – Monday, July 18, 2011 about 12:55 PM Pacific Time
I look out my living room window and watch beautiful white clouds floating across the blue sky. Today is mostly cloudy, with an expected temperature of 105. This is normal for July, so I cannot complain. The last couple of weeks were extremely cool for this time of year.
The air conditioning is working, which is nice. I am not sure I could take the present temperatures if the air conditioning did not work. I do not know what the power bill will be this month. Last month it was over $200.00 and under $250.00, I expect this month’s bill to be more. Fortunately, I do not have to worry about the power bill until after July 28. After that date, I can go online and see how much the cool air is going to cost me. Until then, I will simply enjoy the temperature inside the house.
I look out my living room window and watch beautiful white clouds floating across the blue sky. Today is mostly cloudy, with an expected temperature of 105. This is normal for July, so I cannot complain. The last couple of weeks were extremely cool for this time of year.
The air conditioning is working, which is nice. I am not sure I could take the present temperatures if the air conditioning did not work. I do not know what the power bill will be this month. Last month it was over $200.00 and under $250.00, I expect this month’s bill to be more. Fortunately, I do not have to worry about the power bill until after July 28. After that date, I can go online and see how much the cool air is going to cost me. Until then, I will simply enjoy the temperature inside the house.
Saturday, July 16, 2011
Living on a shoestring and a prayer
Jalál (Glory), 4 Kalimát (Words), 167 BE – Saturday, July 16, 2011 about 8:47 AM Pacific Time
My mother and I are on a fixed income. We have been living on a shoestring and a prayer. Now, from what I gather listening to the financial news, our shoestring will be getting shorter. I am to the point of paying off some of the past debts, while keeping most of the monthly bills paid.
I have figured out which bills I can put off for a month or two and which I have to pay on time. We are find this month, I have most of the monthly bills paid and we have enough medication to last until about the middle of August. August bills are the issue.
On August 1, I have to go online to set up the mortgage payment to come out of the bank account on August 4 or 5, when one of Mom’s automatic deposits hit her bank account. That is the question, will that direct deposit arrive or not? If the deposit does not hit her account on time, then I have to find $850.00 to cover the withdrawal on August 5.
Right now, my only solution is prayer. I cannot find a way to get the money, if I worry about the problem. The only way to find a solution is worrying because I cannot see the solution if I worry. The only way I can stop worrying is prayer; therefore, I will increase my prayers and place the situation in God’s hands.
My mother and I are on a fixed income. We have been living on a shoestring and a prayer. Now, from what I gather listening to the financial news, our shoestring will be getting shorter. I am to the point of paying off some of the past debts, while keeping most of the monthly bills paid.
I have figured out which bills I can put off for a month or two and which I have to pay on time. We are find this month, I have most of the monthly bills paid and we have enough medication to last until about the middle of August. August bills are the issue.
On August 1, I have to go online to set up the mortgage payment to come out of the bank account on August 4 or 5, when one of Mom’s automatic deposits hit her bank account. That is the question, will that direct deposit arrive or not? If the deposit does not hit her account on time, then I have to find $850.00 to cover the withdrawal on August 5.
Right now, my only solution is prayer. I cannot find a way to get the money, if I worry about the problem. The only way to find a solution is worrying because I cannot see the solution if I worry. The only way I can stop worrying is prayer; therefore, I will increase my prayers and place the situation in God’s hands.
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Encouraging my Mother to eat
Istijlál (Majesty), 2 Kalimát (Words), 167 BE – Thursday, July 14, 2011 about 5:55 PM Pacific Time
I finally figured out the secret of getting my mother to eat. It is a simple process of fixing a meal with different tastes. I noticed a few days ago when I fixed some leftovers. I mixed different vegetables with two different types of meat. When I give it to Mom, she ate everything on her plate or rather in her bowl.
Mom likes to eat her food out of a cereal or soup bowl. It does not matter what she is eating, she wants it in a bowl rather then a plate. As long as she eats, I do not care what type of plate or bowl wants her food in. I am happy to find out she eats better if the food has different tastes and textures.
Today, I fixed vegetable soup. I mixed four different types of frozen vegetables together and let them cook in the slow cooker. To the vegetables, I added a shrimp bouillon cube. Mom enjoyed the veggie and she ate everything in her bowl. Tomorrow I will warm some of the soup up in the microwave and maybe add some canned chicken or fish. I think I have a can of salmon in the pantry.
I finally figured out the secret of getting my mother to eat. It is a simple process of fixing a meal with different tastes. I noticed a few days ago when I fixed some leftovers. I mixed different vegetables with two different types of meat. When I give it to Mom, she ate everything on her plate or rather in her bowl.
Mom likes to eat her food out of a cereal or soup bowl. It does not matter what she is eating, she wants it in a bowl rather then a plate. As long as she eats, I do not care what type of plate or bowl wants her food in. I am happy to find out she eats better if the food has different tastes and textures.
Today, I fixed vegetable soup. I mixed four different types of frozen vegetables together and let them cook in the slow cooker. To the vegetables, I added a shrimp bouillon cube. Mom enjoyed the veggie and she ate everything in her bowl. Tomorrow I will warm some of the soup up in the microwave and maybe add some canned chicken or fish. I think I have a can of salmon in the pantry.
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
Tuesday afternoon in Las Vegas
Fidál (Grace), 19 Rahmat (Mercy), 167 BE – Monday-Tuesday, July 12, 2011 about 7:15 PM Pacific Time
It is late Tuesday afternoon and the sun is sinking in the west. I stayed home the entire day. This morning I spent 33.5 minutes dealing is one company. They kept switching me back and forth between departments and placing me on hold. I finally got things taken care of, not to my satisfaction, but I dealt with it.
Mom was in a good mood when she came home from the adult daycare center. She took her medication, ate something and went to bed. When I went in to remove her hearing aids from her ears, she was still in a good mood. In fact, she let me remove her glasses without a protest. Yes, my mother goes to bed wearing her glasses. After she is asleep, I go into her bedroom, take them off her and put them on the bedside stand. Normally, if I try to take them off when she goes to bed, she gets upset; therefore, I wait until she goes to sleep.
I do not go out in the evening any more. I would like to, but I cannot leave Mom alone. She gets tired at the daycare center and wants to go to bed earlier now. I stay home. I have not been to a nineteen-day Feast in several months. I would like to go to Feast. I miss going to Feast. I would also like to go to a poetry reading. Oh well, that is life.
It is late Tuesday afternoon and the sun is sinking in the west. I stayed home the entire day. This morning I spent 33.5 minutes dealing is one company. They kept switching me back and forth between departments and placing me on hold. I finally got things taken care of, not to my satisfaction, but I dealt with it.
Mom was in a good mood when she came home from the adult daycare center. She took her medication, ate something and went to bed. When I went in to remove her hearing aids from her ears, she was still in a good mood. In fact, she let me remove her glasses without a protest. Yes, my mother goes to bed wearing her glasses. After she is asleep, I go into her bedroom, take them off her and put them on the bedside stand. Normally, if I try to take them off when she goes to bed, she gets upset; therefore, I wait until she goes to sleep.
I do not go out in the evening any more. I would like to, but I cannot leave Mom alone. She gets tired at the daycare center and wants to go to bed earlier now. I stay home. I have not been to a nineteen-day Feast in several months. I would like to go to Feast. I miss going to Feast. I would also like to go to a poetry reading. Oh well, that is life.
Sunday, July 10, 2011
A beautiful rainy day in Las Vegas
Jamál (Beauty), 17 Rahmat (Mercy), 167 BE – Sunday, July 10, 2011 about 4:15 PM Pacific Time
It rained again today in Las Vegas. This morning it was partly cloudy, but as the day advanced, the clouds gathered overhead. A thunderstorm warning flashed across the television screen. After that, I heard raindrops hitting the cement of my driveway. I looked out the window and saw rain coming down.
It rained little bit yesterday. Today, the rain shower was a little longer. It was not long enough to leave a puddle in the driveway. The clouds are still covering the sky and occasionally I hear thunder, so it may rain again today. I enjoy sitting on the couch in the living room watching the rain
It rained again today in Las Vegas. This morning it was partly cloudy, but as the day advanced, the clouds gathered overhead. A thunderstorm warning flashed across the television screen. After that, I heard raindrops hitting the cement of my driveway. I looked out the window and saw rain coming down.
It rained little bit yesterday. Today, the rain shower was a little longer. It was not long enough to leave a puddle in the driveway. The clouds are still covering the sky and occasionally I hear thunder, so it may rain again today. I enjoy sitting on the couch in the living room watching the rain
Saturday, July 09, 2011
Improvising a Gourmet Lunch
Jalál (Glory), 16 Rahmat (Mercy), 167 BE – Saturday, July 9, 2011 about 3:10 PM Pacific Time
Mom and I had a gourmet lunch today. I did not fix it from scratch, but used a frozen stir-fry meal. I know that is not what most people consider gourmet, but it is as close as I can get today. I enjoy cooking gourmet meals, but I do not get the pleasure very often. If I want a meal of this type, I have either to go to a restaurant or improvise. Today I improvised.
It is difficult to take Mom to a restaurant and I cannot leave her alone, so I cannot get a gourmet meal to go. I also did not go to the Commemoration of the Martyrdom of the Bab, for the same reason I could not got to a restaurant. It is difficult to take Mom out; she does not like to leave the house. Because Mom has Alzheimer’s disease, she has behavioral issues.
The doctor prescribed a new medication for behavioral problems, so Mom and I may be able to go out more often. I will have to wait and see how the medication affects Mom. There is a nineteen-day feast in a few day, so I will she how Mom is reacting to the medication; perhaps we can go to the Feast.
Mom and I had a gourmet lunch today. I did not fix it from scratch, but used a frozen stir-fry meal. I know that is not what most people consider gourmet, but it is as close as I can get today. I enjoy cooking gourmet meals, but I do not get the pleasure very often. If I want a meal of this type, I have either to go to a restaurant or improvise. Today I improvised.
It is difficult to take Mom to a restaurant and I cannot leave her alone, so I cannot get a gourmet meal to go. I also did not go to the Commemoration of the Martyrdom of the Bab, for the same reason I could not got to a restaurant. It is difficult to take Mom out; she does not like to leave the house. Because Mom has Alzheimer’s disease, she has behavioral issues.
The doctor prescribed a new medication for behavioral problems, so Mom and I may be able to go out more often. I will have to wait and see how the medication affects Mom. There is a nineteen-day feast in a few day, so I will she how Mom is reacting to the medication; perhaps we can go to the Feast.
Wednesday, July 06, 2011
The end of an era
‘Idál (Justice), 13 Rahmat (Mercy), 167 BE – Wednesday, July 6, 2011 about 4:30 PM Pacific Time
It is the end of an era. The final shuttle mission is Friday and I am at a loose for words. I am sad. I want to cry. I remember the watching television and the rockets blasting off. I never did get to see a take off in person maybe that is why I want to cry. Perhaps I want to cry because this is the last mission and I will miss watching the event on the news.
I will come to terms with the way I feel. I will write a story or poem about it. I will never forget how it felt to watch the event of television. I will always regret that I never got to see a lift off in person.
It is the end of an era. The final shuttle mission is Friday and I am at a loose for words. I am sad. I want to cry. I remember the watching television and the rockets blasting off. I never did get to see a take off in person maybe that is why I want to cry. Perhaps I want to cry because this is the last mission and I will miss watching the event on the news.
I will come to terms with the way I feel. I will write a story or poem about it. I will never forget how it felt to watch the event of television. I will always regret that I never got to see a lift off in person.
Tuesday, July 05, 2011
Today does not seem like Tuesday
Fidál (Grace), 12 Rahmat (Mercy), 167 BE – Tuesday, July 5, 2011 about 5:50 PM Pacific Time
I keep thinking today is Monday; it just does not feel like Tuesday. I think that is because yesterday was a holiday. On the Fourth of July, the adult daycare center did not open, so Mom stayed home. Mom attends the center Monday through Friday unless one of those days is a holiday.
I enjoyed having Mom home for three days straight; however, it threw my sense of time off. Today feels like Monday because Mom went back to the center today. She left the house about 8:30 AM and returned home around 4:30 PM. Mom was in decent mood today, she did cry this morning while she waited in her wheelchair for the Center’s buss to pick her up, but I think that was because she is not used to taking the wheelchair.
When she came home this afternoon, she was happy and not crying. I think she will eventually get used to taking the wheelchair to the daycare. In fact, for the past few days Mom has been in a good mood. Yesterday and today, she got up willing and did not fuss when I asked her to change her cloths. In addition, she went to the daycare without putting up a fuse.
I am happy about Mom’s good mood and I hope it last a while. Perhaps the medication is doing some good after all. I will just go with the flow and accept Mom’s mood as a blessing.
I keep thinking today is Monday; it just does not feel like Tuesday. I think that is because yesterday was a holiday. On the Fourth of July, the adult daycare center did not open, so Mom stayed home. Mom attends the center Monday through Friday unless one of those days is a holiday.
I enjoyed having Mom home for three days straight; however, it threw my sense of time off. Today feels like Monday because Mom went back to the center today. She left the house about 8:30 AM and returned home around 4:30 PM. Mom was in decent mood today, she did cry this morning while she waited in her wheelchair for the Center’s buss to pick her up, but I think that was because she is not used to taking the wheelchair.
When she came home this afternoon, she was happy and not crying. I think she will eventually get used to taking the wheelchair to the daycare. In fact, for the past few days Mom has been in a good mood. Yesterday and today, she got up willing and did not fuss when I asked her to change her cloths. In addition, she went to the daycare without putting up a fuse.
I am happy about Mom’s good mood and I hope it last a while. Perhaps the medication is doing some good after all. I will just go with the flow and accept Mom’s mood as a blessing.
Monday, July 04, 2011
Fourth of July memories
Kamál (Perfection), 11 Rahmat (Mercy), 167 BE – Monday, July 4, 2011 about 3:45 PM Pacific Time
The fourth of July always brings back pleasant memories. As a child, I liked Independence Day because we spent it at Lake Blackwell with my grandparents. We set off firecrackers, grilled hot dog and hamburgers, and drank soda pop. Grandma always made her potato salad to go with our lunch and we always ate a cold watermelon.
During the day, Grandpa took us out on the lake in his motor boat. Grandpa also, water-skied. I remember sitting in the boat while one of my older cousins drove the boat and Grandpa skied. I enjoyed the Fourth of July because it was a day Mom and Grandpa did not have to work, so we could spend the entire day at the Lake.
At night, we would set off fireworks. Grandpa and the other adults lit Roman candles (illegal today) and we set off bottle rockets. I enjoyed watching the fireworks and I enjoyed spending the night at the Lake sleeping in Grandpa’s trail house (mobile home). Those were nice days and we were lucky no one in the family was hurt by the fireworks.
The fourth of July always brings back pleasant memories. As a child, I liked Independence Day because we spent it at Lake Blackwell with my grandparents. We set off firecrackers, grilled hot dog and hamburgers, and drank soda pop. Grandma always made her potato salad to go with our lunch and we always ate a cold watermelon.
During the day, Grandpa took us out on the lake in his motor boat. Grandpa also, water-skied. I remember sitting in the boat while one of my older cousins drove the boat and Grandpa skied. I enjoyed the Fourth of July because it was a day Mom and Grandpa did not have to work, so we could spend the entire day at the Lake.
At night, we would set off fireworks. Grandpa and the other adults lit Roman candles (illegal today) and we set off bottle rockets. I enjoyed watching the fireworks and I enjoyed spending the night at the Lake sleeping in Grandpa’s trail house (mobile home). Those were nice days and we were lucky no one in the family was hurt by the fireworks.
Sunday, July 03, 2011
Tomorrow is America’s Birthday
Jamál (Beauty), 10 Rahmat (Mercy), 167 BE – Sunday, July 3, 2011 about 3:55 PM Pacific Time
For the past couple of nights, someone has set off firecrackers. This happens in this neighborhood every year around this time. Someone begins celebrating America’s Birthday two or three days early. I do not mind hearing the firecrackers because their sound brings back memories of my childhood.
I remember celebrating the Fourth of July in Blackwell, Oklahoma. Someone always wanted to begin the celebration a few days early. It was not a big deal at the time firecrackers were noisy and scary. On the night of the Fourth, we celebrated to occasion at Lake Blackwell where we barbequed during the day and set off fireworks at night. Grandpa always watched us and made sure we were safe.
A few times, we went to Lake Carl Blackwell for the Fourth, but most of the time we went to Lake Blackwell. I always enjoyed spending Independence Day with Grandpa and Grandma at Lake Blackwell.
For the past couple of nights, someone has set off firecrackers. This happens in this neighborhood every year around this time. Someone begins celebrating America’s Birthday two or three days early. I do not mind hearing the firecrackers because their sound brings back memories of my childhood.
I remember celebrating the Fourth of July in Blackwell, Oklahoma. Someone always wanted to begin the celebration a few days early. It was not a big deal at the time firecrackers were noisy and scary. On the night of the Fourth, we celebrated to occasion at Lake Blackwell where we barbequed during the day and set off fireworks at night. Grandpa always watched us and made sure we were safe.
A few times, we went to Lake Carl Blackwell for the Fourth, but most of the time we went to Lake Blackwell. I always enjoyed spending Independence Day with Grandpa and Grandma at Lake Blackwell.
Saturday, July 02, 2011
Rotator Cuff Issues
Jalál (Glory), 9 Rahmat (Mercy), 167 BE – Saturday, July 2, 2011 about 3:55 PM Pacific Time
My left shoulder has been extremely painful for the past couple of weeks. It was so bad that I could not get my left hand behind my back, so when I went to the doctor yesterday I discussed it with her. It turns out I injured my rotator cuff; I suspect it was giving Mom a bath. Anyway, the doctor prescribed a medication for the pain and gave me some exercises to do.
I picked up the medication today and took one of the tablets when I got home. It is amazing how much better I feel without pain. I had been taking an over the counter pain pill, but that did not help. I did not tear the rotator cuff, but I did strain it.
The strain rehabilitation exercises are easy. I have to do them when Mom is asleep, so I do them in either the morning before she is awake or in the evening after she goes to bed. Mom gets upset if she thinks there is something wrong with me, so I have to be careful when I am in pain or not feeling well. Because of the Alzheimer’s is afraid my condition is worse then it is.
My left shoulder has been extremely painful for the past couple of weeks. It was so bad that I could not get my left hand behind my back, so when I went to the doctor yesterday I discussed it with her. It turns out I injured my rotator cuff; I suspect it was giving Mom a bath. Anyway, the doctor prescribed a medication for the pain and gave me some exercises to do.
I picked up the medication today and took one of the tablets when I got home. It is amazing how much better I feel without pain. I had been taking an over the counter pain pill, but that did not help. I did not tear the rotator cuff, but I did strain it.
The strain rehabilitation exercises are easy. I have to do them when Mom is asleep, so I do them in either the morning before she is awake or in the evening after she goes to bed. Mom gets upset if she thinks there is something wrong with me, so I have to be careful when I am in pain or not feeling well. Because of the Alzheimer’s is afraid my condition is worse then it is.
Friday, July 01, 2011
The first Friday in July
Jalál (Glory), 9 Rahmat (Mercy), 167 BE – Friday, July 1, 2011 about 10:15 PM Pacific Time
It is the first Friday in July and there is a celebration of the arts going on in Las Vegas. I cannot go because I do not have anyone to sit with Mom. The only time I get out any more is during the day, when Mom is in the daycare center. Mom goes to the center Monday through Friday, so I can go out on those days.
Normally, I stay home on weekends, but tomorrow I will go pick up prescriptions while someone stays with Mom. I cannot stay out very long, so I will pick up the prescriptions and come home. Then I will stay home the rest of the weekend and on the Fourth of July. Mom does not go to the daycare center on the Fourth, so I will stay home as well.
It is the first Friday in July and there is a celebration of the arts going on in Las Vegas. I cannot go because I do not have anyone to sit with Mom. The only time I get out any more is during the day, when Mom is in the daycare center. Mom goes to the center Monday through Friday, so I can go out on those days.
Normally, I stay home on weekends, but tomorrow I will go pick up prescriptions while someone stays with Mom. I cannot stay out very long, so I will pick up the prescriptions and come home. Then I will stay home the rest of the weekend and on the Fourth of July. Mom does not go to the daycare center on the Fourth, so I will stay home as well.
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Reversed positions in Las Vegas
Fidál (Grace), 5 Rahmat (Mercy), 167 BE – Tuesday, June 28, 2011 about 1:55 PM Pacific Time
My mother and I have reversed positions. I am the caregiver. I am the one who gets Mom out of bed each morning. It takes about thirty minutes to get Mom out of bed. Mom wakes up when I go into her bedroom and sit down on her bed, but she does not want to get up. The Alzheimer’s disease has caused this reversal.
Mom used to get up as soon as it got daylight, but not any more. I used to be the one difficult to get up in the morning, but now Mom wants to stay in bed all day. Mom goes to an adult daycare center five days a week, so I have to get her up early enough to bath and get dressed. Mom does not want to get up; she wants to lie in bed.
Mom wants to go to bed when she comes home from the daycare center. She will eat something and then go to bed. Mom goes to bed early and sleeps through the night, so I get her up early. I encourage her to get out of bed between 5:00 and 5:30 AM. I am lucky if she is up by 6:00 because she simply wants to lie in the bed. If I keep encouraging her, she eventually get up so that she can eat and get ready to go the daycare center.
My mother and I have reversed positions. I am the caregiver. I am the one who gets Mom out of bed each morning. It takes about thirty minutes to get Mom out of bed. Mom wakes up when I go into her bedroom and sit down on her bed, but she does not want to get up. The Alzheimer’s disease has caused this reversal.
Mom used to get up as soon as it got daylight, but not any more. I used to be the one difficult to get up in the morning, but now Mom wants to stay in bed all day. Mom goes to an adult daycare center five days a week, so I have to get her up early enough to bath and get dressed. Mom does not want to get up; she wants to lie in bed.
Mom wants to go to bed when she comes home from the daycare center. She will eat something and then go to bed. Mom goes to bed early and sleeps through the night, so I get her up early. I encourage her to get out of bed between 5:00 and 5:30 AM. I am lucky if she is up by 6:00 because she simply wants to lie in the bed. If I keep encouraging her, she eventually get up so that she can eat and get ready to go the daycare center.
Monday, June 27, 2011
Cooking with soup in Las Vegas
Kamál (Perfection), 4 Rahmat (Mercy), 168 BE – Monday, June 27, 2011 about 4:25 PM Pacific Time
Today I fixed the other two squash. These large green squash, I do not know what they are called. Anyway, I peeled the green skins and the inside of the squash were white. After I peeled the squash, I sliced them into smaller pieces. Next, I cut up one medium onion.
In the electric skillet, I put two tablespoons of vegetable oil. After the oil was hot, I put the squash, onions and nine squirts of balsamic vinaigrette dressing. I cooked this combination for a few minutes and then added a can of tomato soup. I liked the taste of this recipe better then the yellow squash recipe, but perhaps it was because of the spices in the can of soup.
I am going to have to cook with soup more often. I do not have fresh spices and the canned spices I have are several years old. I do not like to buy spices because I do not use them up as quickly as I would like. I think the best thing for me is to begin cooking with soup because the canned soups already have spices in them and they add to the recipes I create. The recipes taste better with the soup then they would with the old spices I have in the house.
Today I fixed the other two squash. These large green squash, I do not know what they are called. Anyway, I peeled the green skins and the inside of the squash were white. After I peeled the squash, I sliced them into smaller pieces. Next, I cut up one medium onion.
In the electric skillet, I put two tablespoons of vegetable oil. After the oil was hot, I put the squash, onions and nine squirts of balsamic vinaigrette dressing. I cooked this combination for a few minutes and then added a can of tomato soup. I liked the taste of this recipe better then the yellow squash recipe, but perhaps it was because of the spices in the can of soup.
I am going to have to cook with soup more often. I do not have fresh spices and the canned spices I have are several years old. I do not like to buy spices because I do not use them up as quickly as I would like. I think the best thing for me is to begin cooking with soup because the canned soups already have spices in them and they add to the recipes I create. The recipes taste better with the soup then they would with the old spices I have in the house.
Sunday, June 26, 2011
There is a first time for everything
Jamál (Beauty), 3 Rahmat (Mercy), 168 BE – Sunday, June 26, 2011 about 3:55 PM Pacific Time
Today, I baked cookies in the microwave for the first time. I knew it was possible; I just had not attempted it. I had a package of cookie dough in the fridge. I opened the package and broke apart the dough. Then I put the cookies in a microwave safe dish. I set the timer at 1.25 and turned the oven on. The cookies turn out well, considering that the instructions on the package were for a regular oven.
The only oven in the house that works is the microwave. I have no other choice; I have to use the microwave whenever I bake anything. I would prefer not to guess at the time, especially with cookies. I could not leave the cookie dough in the refrigerator any longer, so I baked them today. I still have a package of cookie mix in the refrigerator. I will fix it this coming week. I think I need to add eggs to the mix, so I cannot bake it until I go to the store again.
I also have a couple of squash in the refrigerator, so I will bake them in the microwave. I like baked squash better then fried squash. I will post the recipe I use for the squash once I decided on the ingredients.
Today, I baked cookies in the microwave for the first time. I knew it was possible; I just had not attempted it. I had a package of cookie dough in the fridge. I opened the package and broke apart the dough. Then I put the cookies in a microwave safe dish. I set the timer at 1.25 and turned the oven on. The cookies turn out well, considering that the instructions on the package were for a regular oven.
The only oven in the house that works is the microwave. I have no other choice; I have to use the microwave whenever I bake anything. I would prefer not to guess at the time, especially with cookies. I could not leave the cookie dough in the refrigerator any longer, so I baked them today. I still have a package of cookie mix in the refrigerator. I will fix it this coming week. I think I need to add eggs to the mix, so I cannot bake it until I go to the store again.
I also have a couple of squash in the refrigerator, so I will bake them in the microwave. I like baked squash better then fried squash. I will post the recipe I use for the squash once I decided on the ingredients.
Saturday, June 25, 2011
I need a digital camera
I am experimenting with recipes and I need a digital camera to takes pictures of my creations, so that I can post them to my blogs. I have a phone that takes pictures, but I cannot send those pictures to my e-mail addresses. I have tried several times to no avail, therefore I need a digital camera.
Today’s Recipe: Saturday afternoon yellow squash
Jalál (Glory), 2 Rahmat (Mercy), 168 BE – Saturday, June 25, 2011 about 12:35 PM Pacific Time
½ small white onion diced
6 small yellow squash sliced
1 tablespoon vegetable oil
Salt and pepper to taste
3 or 4 squirts of Balsamic Vinaigrette dressing
1 cup diced and drained tomatoes
Heat vegetable oil in a skillet. In to the hot oil place onions and yellow squash, while this mixture is cooking add the salt, pepper, and vinaigrette dressing. Cook until squash is tender and then add the tomatoes. Please note that you do not have to add the vinaigrette dressing or the salt and pepper to this dish. If you want to add or substitute, other spices feel free to do so.
This recipe can be either a main or side dish and serves about two people. I liked the natural sweetness of this recipe. I believe “Saturday afternoon Yellow Squash” is a good recipe to bake, but I have not tried baking it yet.
½ small white onion diced
6 small yellow squash sliced
1 tablespoon vegetable oil
Salt and pepper to taste
3 or 4 squirts of Balsamic Vinaigrette dressing
1 cup diced and drained tomatoes
Heat vegetable oil in a skillet. In to the hot oil place onions and yellow squash, while this mixture is cooking add the salt, pepper, and vinaigrette dressing. Cook until squash is tender and then add the tomatoes. Please note that you do not have to add the vinaigrette dressing or the salt and pepper to this dish. If you want to add or substitute, other spices feel free to do so.
This recipe can be either a main or side dish and serves about two people. I liked the natural sweetness of this recipe. I believe “Saturday afternoon Yellow Squash” is a good recipe to bake, but I have not tried baking it yet.
Friday, June 24, 2011
Summer in Las Vegas
Istiqlál (Independence), 1 Rahmat (Mercy), 168 BE – Friday, June 24, 2011 about 1:45 PM Pacific Time
It is summer in Las Vegas, which mean triple digit temperatures. Today, when I went to the pharmacy to pick up my thyroid medication I also bought spray on sunscreen with a 45 rating. This is the first time I have bought spray on sunscreen; normally I buy my sunscreen in a tube. However, the spray on was the store brand and the least expensive.
It is summer in Las Vegas, which mean triple digit temperatures. Today, when I went to the pharmacy to pick up my thyroid medication I also bought spray on sunscreen with a 45 rating. This is the first time I have bought spray on sunscreen; normally I buy my sunscreen in a tube. However, the spray on was the store brand and the least expensive.
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Triple Digit Temperatures in Las Vegas
Istijlál (Majesty), 19 Núr (Light), 167 BE – Thursday, June 23, 2011 about 7:05 PM Pacific Time
Triple digit temperatures have arrived in Las Vegas. I have no air conditioning in my car, so I have to drive when the temperatures are cooler. I try to do all my business before noon and make sure I am back home by 1:00 PM, at least that way I spend the day in a cool house, at least a house that is cooler then the outside temperatures.
Doing business only in the morning means I have to spend four or five days accomplishing everything. The hot weather wears me out and I would rather do it this way then spend the entire day driving across town. I use the same amount of gas whether I do my business in one day or in five.
Triple digit temperatures have arrived in Las Vegas. I have no air conditioning in my car, so I have to drive when the temperatures are cooler. I try to do all my business before noon and make sure I am back home by 1:00 PM, at least that way I spend the day in a cool house, at least a house that is cooler then the outside temperatures.
Doing business only in the morning means I have to spend four or five days accomplishing everything. The hot weather wears me out and I would rather do it this way then spend the entire day driving across town. I use the same amount of gas whether I do my business in one day or in five.
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
I enjoy movies and shopping for cloths
‘Idál (Justice), 11 Núr (Light), 167 BE – Wednesday, June 15, 2011 about 2:20 PM Pacific Time
I enjoy going to movies and shopping for cloths. Today, I realized that it has been at least three months since I did either. In the past three months, I have went grocery shopping in a super market, I have bought produce at a Farmer’s Market, and I went to an office supply store, but I have not been to a movie or shopped for cloths.
I need new cloths before I go to a movie. Therefore, this month I have to plan a shopping trip to either a department store or a discount-clothing store. All right, buying new cloths to go to a movie is just an excuse to buy new cloths. I do not need an excuse to buy cloths because I can look in my closet and see several reason I need the cloths.
I want to go to a Mall and spend a couple of hours shopping. Then I want to sit in the Food Court and enjoy a meal I do not have to cook myself. I do all of the meal preparation and sometimes it gets tiresome. I want to eat food someone else has prepared for a change.
I enjoy going to movies and shopping for cloths. Today, I realized that it has been at least three months since I did either. In the past three months, I have went grocery shopping in a super market, I have bought produce at a Farmer’s Market, and I went to an office supply store, but I have not been to a movie or shopped for cloths.
I need new cloths before I go to a movie. Therefore, this month I have to plan a shopping trip to either a department store or a discount-clothing store. All right, buying new cloths to go to a movie is just an excuse to buy new cloths. I do not need an excuse to buy cloths because I can look in my closet and see several reason I need the cloths.
I want to go to a Mall and spend a couple of hours shopping. Then I want to sit in the Food Court and enjoy a meal I do not have to cook myself. I do all of the meal preparation and sometimes it gets tiresome. I want to eat food someone else has prepared for a change.
Monday, June 13, 2011
Triple digit temperatures expected in Las Vegas
Kamál (Perfection), 9 Núr (Light), 167 BE – Monday, June 13, 2011 about 1:30 PM Pacific Time
It is official; the meteorologist forecast triple digit temperatures to begin on Tuesday, June 14. The weather person said the triple digits will last three days and then drop into the 90s. I am not looking forward to these temperatures because it means I will have to get my business accomplished before 1:00 PM.
The daycare bus picks Mom up around 9:30 AM, so I have to leave the house right after the bush picks her up. My car needs a new thermostat, which means I have to check the water in the overflow and the fluid in the radiator before backing out of my driveway. I can check these items either in the evening after Mom goes to bed or in the morning before she wakes up. I also have to plan time to take the car to the mechanic, which is a problem since Mom does not leave the house until 9:30 AM. I will have to make a 10:00 or 10:30 AM appointment with the mechanic and hope he gets the car done before 3:30 PM.
I do not think I can take the car in this week because I have everything planned. I have at least two things that I cannot put off doing any longer, so I have to accomplish them this week. In addition, I do not have a working air conditioner in the car, which is another reason I am not looking forward to triple digit temperatures.
It is official; the meteorologist forecast triple digit temperatures to begin on Tuesday, June 14. The weather person said the triple digits will last three days and then drop into the 90s. I am not looking forward to these temperatures because it means I will have to get my business accomplished before 1:00 PM.
The daycare bus picks Mom up around 9:30 AM, so I have to leave the house right after the bush picks her up. My car needs a new thermostat, which means I have to check the water in the overflow and the fluid in the radiator before backing out of my driveway. I can check these items either in the evening after Mom goes to bed or in the morning before she wakes up. I also have to plan time to take the car to the mechanic, which is a problem since Mom does not leave the house until 9:30 AM. I will have to make a 10:00 or 10:30 AM appointment with the mechanic and hope he gets the car done before 3:30 PM.
I do not think I can take the car in this week because I have everything planned. I have at least two things that I cannot put off doing any longer, so I have to accomplish them this week. In addition, I do not have a working air conditioner in the car, which is another reason I am not looking forward to triple digit temperatures.
Sunday, June 12, 2011
Countdown to Father’s Day
Jamál (Beauty), 8 Núr (Light), 168 BE – Sunday, June 12, 2011 about 12:10 PM Pacific Time
Father’s Day is the third Sunday in June, which is the nineteenth. That is seven days from today. My father passed away several years ago, so I cannot send him a Father’s Day card. I do not know the location of his grave, so I cannot visit the cemetery. My parents were divorced when I was a child and my memories of Dad are faded and limited.
The choices I have concerning Father’s Day and commemorating my father are limited. I can say a prayer for Day. I can write a poem. I can write a letter to him in my journal. I can write a letter to my Father and post it in one of my blogs. I can write a memory of Dad. I can find an old photo and post it to my blog. These are my choices for commemorating Father’s Day.
Dad died before I could say good-bye to him. I miss my Father, when I was growing up, I did not realize how much I missed him. Growing up, Grandpa Newland (my mother’s father) was my father figure. I have many memories of my Grandfather and I could write about those, but for some reason I want to write about my Father this year.
Father’s Day is the third Sunday in June, which is the nineteenth. That is seven days from today. My father passed away several years ago, so I cannot send him a Father’s Day card. I do not know the location of his grave, so I cannot visit the cemetery. My parents were divorced when I was a child and my memories of Dad are faded and limited.
The choices I have concerning Father’s Day and commemorating my father are limited. I can say a prayer for Day. I can write a poem. I can write a letter to him in my journal. I can write a letter to my Father and post it in one of my blogs. I can write a memory of Dad. I can find an old photo and post it to my blog. These are my choices for commemorating Father’s Day.
Dad died before I could say good-bye to him. I miss my Father, when I was growing up, I did not realize how much I missed him. Growing up, Grandpa Newland (my mother’s father) was my father figure. I have many memories of my Grandfather and I could write about those, but for some reason I want to write about my Father this year.
Saturday, June 11, 2011
Air conditioning is nice
Jalál (Glory), 7 Núr (Light), 167 BE – Saturday, June 11, 2011 about 5:40 PM Pacific Time
I have air conditioning. The unit is working and it is nice to work in a cool house. I still have a lot of work to do because it was too warm for me to work when the unit was out. We did not have triple digit temperatures in Las Vegas while the unit was not working, still the temperatures rose into the middle and high nineties.
I do not know why the temperatures affected me the way it did. Perhaps it is my age or my physical condition, but it was difficult to do anything with temperatures in the nineties. I can deal with eighty-degree temperatures without any problems, but the ninety-degree temperatures got to me.
Mom was fortunate because she went to adult daycare five days a week. The daycare center was nice and cool, it was pleasant; however, the temperatures in the house were not. I am glad the unit is fixed; I know the power bill will be high, but right now, I am just glad to have a cool house.
Last night I turned the thermostat up to eighty-one degrees and left it at that today. I may turn it up to eighty-two tonight or I may leave it at eight-one degrees. I do not think I will turn the thermostat higher then eight-three degrees because that is as high as I can go and still be comfortable. Mom does not complain about being too hot or too cold when the temperature reaches eighty-three degrees.
I have air conditioning. The unit is working and it is nice to work in a cool house. I still have a lot of work to do because it was too warm for me to work when the unit was out. We did not have triple digit temperatures in Las Vegas while the unit was not working, still the temperatures rose into the middle and high nineties.
I do not know why the temperatures affected me the way it did. Perhaps it is my age or my physical condition, but it was difficult to do anything with temperatures in the nineties. I can deal with eighty-degree temperatures without any problems, but the ninety-degree temperatures got to me.
Mom was fortunate because she went to adult daycare five days a week. The daycare center was nice and cool, it was pleasant; however, the temperatures in the house were not. I am glad the unit is fixed; I know the power bill will be high, but right now, I am just glad to have a cool house.
Last night I turned the thermostat up to eighty-one degrees and left it at that today. I may turn it up to eighty-two tonight or I may leave it at eight-one degrees. I do not think I will turn the thermostat higher then eight-three degrees because that is as high as I can go and still be comfortable. Mom does not complain about being too hot or too cold when the temperature reaches eighty-three degrees.
Monday, June 06, 2011
Multitasking Monday in Las Vegas
Kamál (Perfection), 2 Núr (Light), 168 BE – Monday, June 6, 2011 about 2:10 PM Pacific Time
I have to go to the laundromat sometime this week, so I am sorting cloths. During the sorting process, I got very thirsty and decided to get a cold bottle of water before continuing the task. Rather then simply sitting down and drinking the water, I figured I would make a blog entry.
We have had no air conditioning for the past couple of weeks. Even thought the temperature has not reached the triple digits, it has been uncomfortable without air conditioning. I have three fans, but all they do is move the hot air around. The technician is fixing the air conditioning unit right now, but I am not sure how long that will take.
Fortunately, my mother spends five days in adult daycare, so she is in a cool building most of the week. Mom complains about being cold, even in the house with no air conditioning she complains about being cold.
I am not cold. I would like the house cooler while sorting laundry. Since I have to go to the laundromat tomorrow, I have to sort laundry today. Unfortunately, I think I will have to take four baskets because Mom and I both need cloths; in addition, I have to do to loads of bed linen. Oh well, there goes my Tuesday.
I have to go to the laundromat sometime this week, so I am sorting cloths. During the sorting process, I got very thirsty and decided to get a cold bottle of water before continuing the task. Rather then simply sitting down and drinking the water, I figured I would make a blog entry.
We have had no air conditioning for the past couple of weeks. Even thought the temperature has not reached the triple digits, it has been uncomfortable without air conditioning. I have three fans, but all they do is move the hot air around. The technician is fixing the air conditioning unit right now, but I am not sure how long that will take.
Fortunately, my mother spends five days in adult daycare, so she is in a cool building most of the week. Mom complains about being cold, even in the house with no air conditioning she complains about being cold.
I am not cold. I would like the house cooler while sorting laundry. Since I have to go to the laundromat tomorrow, I have to sort laundry today. Unfortunately, I think I will have to take four baskets because Mom and I both need cloths; in addition, I have to do to loads of bed linen. Oh well, there goes my Tuesday.
Saturday, June 04, 2011
Five days of adult daycare in Las Vegas
Jalál (Glory), 19 ‘Azamat (Grandeur), 167 BE – Saturday, June 4, 2011 about 2:40 PM Pacific Time
For the past five days, Mom has attended adult daycare. At the daycare center, she gets three meals and fun activities. Mom’s biggest worry the first few days was her purse; she did not remember she left it at home. She now carries her purse with her, which seems to make her happy.
When Mom gets home, she is tired because of the activities. Mom also seems to have a better attitude, she seems happier. Mom does not want to leave the house of a morning, but once she get going she appears to like the daycare center.
For the past five days, Mom has attended adult daycare. At the daycare center, she gets three meals and fun activities. Mom’s biggest worry the first few days was her purse; she did not remember she left it at home. She now carries her purse with her, which seems to make her happy.
When Mom gets home, she is tired because of the activities. Mom also seems to have a better attitude, she seems happier. Mom does not want to leave the house of a morning, but once she get going she appears to like the daycare center.
Sunday, May 29, 2011
I am a World Class Worrier
Jamál (Beauty), 13 ‘Azamat (Grandeur), 168 BE – Sunday, May 29, 2011 about 12:54 PM Pacific Time
I took Parade’s quiz “Are you a world-class worrier?” My score was 77%, which confirms what I already suspected. I am a word-class worrier! I can see the worst-case scenario on a clear blue sky. In the sport of worrying, I am a professional athlete. My list of worst-case scenarios is infinite.
Since worry causes stress, I need to come up with a plan to stop worrying. I need to take a deep breath and remember what a friend once told me. She said that the things she worried about never happened. The things she never worried about and never thought to worry about occurred. I have to remember this when my worst-case scenarios rear their ugly heads, invade my mind, and cause my dark brown hair to turn white with stress.
Stress interferes with the solution to the problem. If I am worrying about something that may never happen, I cannot solve the immediate problem. I suggest that anyone who worries about anything go to the Parade website and take the test. This test is fun and educational and it will give you an idea of the type of worrier you are. Click on this link Are You A WorldClass Worrier
I took Parade’s quiz “Are you a world-class worrier?” My score was 77%, which confirms what I already suspected. I am a word-class worrier! I can see the worst-case scenario on a clear blue sky. In the sport of worrying, I am a professional athlete. My list of worst-case scenarios is infinite.
Since worry causes stress, I need to come up with a plan to stop worrying. I need to take a deep breath and remember what a friend once told me. She said that the things she worried about never happened. The things she never worried about and never thought to worry about occurred. I have to remember this when my worst-case scenarios rear their ugly heads, invade my mind, and cause my dark brown hair to turn white with stress.
Stress interferes with the solution to the problem. If I am worrying about something that may never happen, I cannot solve the immediate problem. I suggest that anyone who worries about anything go to the Parade website and take the test. This test is fun and educational and it will give you an idea of the type of worrier you are. Click on this link Are You A WorldClass Worrier
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
I changed my cell phone to a monthly plan
‘Idál (Justice), 9 ‘Azamat (Grandeur), 168 BE – Wednesday, May 25, 2011 about 6:25 PM Pacific Time
For the past three or four months, I have ran out of minutes before I ran out of month. Therefore, I changed my cell phone to a monthly plan. Last year, when I bought the phone 300 minutes for 60 days was fine. In fact, it was more then I used and the minutes I did not use carried over. However, the past two or three months I have ran out of minutes before I ran out of month.
At the end of last month, I bought 600 minutes for 60 days and ran low on minutes last week. Therefore, I changed to an unlimited monthly plan. Now I do not have to worry about running out of minutes before my check hits the bank. True I cannot carry over the unused minutes, but it is worth the price because I do not have to worry about using minutes at the end of the month.
I can now call anyone I want without worry. I do not have to consider whether to answer my cell phone when it rings. In addition, I have discovered a new definition for unlimited. Life is good.
For the past three or four months, I have ran out of minutes before I ran out of month. Therefore, I changed my cell phone to a monthly plan. Last year, when I bought the phone 300 minutes for 60 days was fine. In fact, it was more then I used and the minutes I did not use carried over. However, the past two or three months I have ran out of minutes before I ran out of month.
At the end of last month, I bought 600 minutes for 60 days and ran low on minutes last week. Therefore, I changed to an unlimited monthly plan. Now I do not have to worry about running out of minutes before my check hits the bank. True I cannot carry over the unused minutes, but it is worth the price because I do not have to worry about using minutes at the end of the month.
I can now call anyone I want without worry. I do not have to consider whether to answer my cell phone when it rings. In addition, I have discovered a new definition for unlimited. Life is good.
Monday, May 23, 2011
Mom begins Adult daycare this week
Kamál (Perfection), 7 ‘Azamat (Grandeur), 168 BE – Monday, May 23, 2011 about 6:50 PM Pacific Time
The schedule for my mother to begin adult daycare is Wednesday, May 25. I do not think Mom is going to like going for the first few days, but once she gets used to it and it becomes a part of her routine, I think she will be all right. It will be good for her to get out of the house and interact with other people.
I am looking forward to see how she likes the experience. I am looking forward to having some time to go to the laundromat without having to worry about Mom. I would prefer to do the laundry at home, but I have to have the pipes behind the washer fixed and that will cost more money then we have right now.
I plan to schedule time at the laundromat on Thursday and Friday this week. I plan taking three baskets of laundry each day, I will be happy if I get one of those days to do laundry. It seems that I encounter some sort of difficulty when I schedule a specific time for any activity. In addition to the laundromat, I have to take my car into the shop because I think there is a problem with the thermostat. I need to do a couple of other items, but I have to do laundry on at least one day.
The schedule for my mother to begin adult daycare is Wednesday, May 25. I do not think Mom is going to like going for the first few days, but once she gets used to it and it becomes a part of her routine, I think she will be all right. It will be good for her to get out of the house and interact with other people.
I am looking forward to see how she likes the experience. I am looking forward to having some time to go to the laundromat without having to worry about Mom. I would prefer to do the laundry at home, but I have to have the pipes behind the washer fixed and that will cost more money then we have right now.
I plan to schedule time at the laundromat on Thursday and Friday this week. I plan taking three baskets of laundry each day, I will be happy if I get one of those days to do laundry. It seems that I encounter some sort of difficulty when I schedule a specific time for any activity. In addition to the laundromat, I have to take my car into the shop because I think there is a problem with the thermostat. I need to do a couple of other items, but I have to do laundry on at least one day.
Friday, May 20, 2011
Still waiting for Adult Daycare
Istiqlál (Independence), 4 ‘Azamat (Grandeur), 168 BE – Friday, May 20, 2011 about 2:40 PM Pacific Time
I am still waiting to get Mom into adult daycare. The doctor has not gotten back to the daycare center, so they cannot take her until the doctor contacts them. Mom needs to go to the daycare because the staff has experience with Alzheimer’s patients. Mom needs to get out of the house and interact with other people.
When I take, Mom out she does not want to leave the house; however, once she gets out she enjoys the experience. Mom may not like going to the daycare center at first, but once she gets there and begins interacting with other people then she will enjoy going.
Since Mom got out of the hospital, she is in a better mood. Going to the daycare, she will have access to exercise and other things that will keep her active. Now that she has two hearing aids she can hear what is going on much better then she could before, so the daycare experience will be more enjoyable.
I would like to get her started next week; I know it takes a while to get this going. I am just not sure it should take this long. Maybe I am becoming impatient.
I am still waiting to get Mom into adult daycare. The doctor has not gotten back to the daycare center, so they cannot take her until the doctor contacts them. Mom needs to go to the daycare because the staff has experience with Alzheimer’s patients. Mom needs to get out of the house and interact with other people.
When I take, Mom out she does not want to leave the house; however, once she gets out she enjoys the experience. Mom may not like going to the daycare center at first, but once she gets there and begins interacting with other people then she will enjoy going.
Since Mom got out of the hospital, she is in a better mood. Going to the daycare, she will have access to exercise and other things that will keep her active. Now that she has two hearing aids she can hear what is going on much better then she could before, so the daycare experience will be more enjoyable.
I would like to get her started next week; I know it takes a while to get this going. I am just not sure it should take this long. Maybe I am becoming impatient.
Thursday, May 19, 2011
Boneless Skinless Chicken Thighs
Istijlál (Majesty), 3 ‘Azamat (Grandeur), 168 BE – Thursday, May 19, 2011 2:04 PM Pacific Time
When I went to the grocery store on Tuesday, I bought a package of boneless skinless chicken thighs. Normally, I buy the chicken thighs with the bone and the skin still attached, but on Tuesday, I decided I wanted to try something different.
I like the way the way the boneless thighs cook. In addition, it is easier to eat and fix in different recipes. Mom seems likes the chicken better then any other type of meat, since she does not want to eat with her fingers the boneless thighs are easier for her handle.
When I went to the grocery store on Tuesday, I bought a package of boneless skinless chicken thighs. Normally, I buy the chicken thighs with the bone and the skin still attached, but on Tuesday, I decided I wanted to try something different.
I like the way the way the boneless thighs cook. In addition, it is easier to eat and fix in different recipes. Mom seems likes the chicken better then any other type of meat, since she does not want to eat with her fingers the boneless thighs are easier for her handle.
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
Early Voting
‘Idál (Justice), 2 ‘Azamat (Grandeur), 168 BE – Wednesday, May 18, 2011 about 6:49 PM Pacific Time
The Municipal General Election is on Tuesday, June 7, 2011. Early voting begins on Saturday, May 21, and ends on Friday, June 3, 2011. I received my sample ballet a few days ago. I look at it a couple of times each day, attempting to figure out what day to vote.
Saturday, May 21, is out because I have food to pick up that morning. Mom has someone to stay with her, so I do not have to take her with me. However, I do have to be back to the house by 11:00 or 11:30 AM and will not have time to drive to any of the early voting polls.
I think I will vote either Sunday, May 29, or Monday, May 30, because the early polls are located near my house. I am working the polls on June 7, so I have to vote early and I enjoy voting early. The only thing I have to do now is decide whom I am voting for, I will decide before Saturday, just in case I get a chance to vote then.
The Municipal General Election is on Tuesday, June 7, 2011. Early voting begins on Saturday, May 21, and ends on Friday, June 3, 2011. I received my sample ballet a few days ago. I look at it a couple of times each day, attempting to figure out what day to vote.
Saturday, May 21, is out because I have food to pick up that morning. Mom has someone to stay with her, so I do not have to take her with me. However, I do have to be back to the house by 11:00 or 11:30 AM and will not have time to drive to any of the early voting polls.
I think I will vote either Sunday, May 29, or Monday, May 30, because the early polls are located near my house. I am working the polls on June 7, so I have to vote early and I enjoy voting early. The only thing I have to do now is decide whom I am voting for, I will decide before Saturday, just in case I get a chance to vote then.
Saturday, May 14, 2011
A New Hospital Bed
Jalál (Glory), 17 Jamál (Beauty), 168 BE – Saturday, May 14, 2011 about 5:51 PM Pacific Time
Mom has a new hospital bed in her room. The guy delivered and set it up earlier this afternoon. Mom has acid reflex and it is better for her to sleep with her head raised. Unfortunately, pillows do not do a good job of keep her head raised. Mom also has to have her feet raised because she retains water and her legs swell.
Mom has not seen the bed yet, so I do not know how she is going to react. I hope she is not too upset about it. I will move her old bed into the spare room and see if I can get a new mattress and box springs to put on it. The mattress of Mom’s bed is newer then my mattress, so I will put that mattress in my room.
Mom has a new hospital bed in her room. The guy delivered and set it up earlier this afternoon. Mom has acid reflex and it is better for her to sleep with her head raised. Unfortunately, pillows do not do a good job of keep her head raised. Mom also has to have her feet raised because she retains water and her legs swell.
Mom has not seen the bed yet, so I do not know how she is going to react. I hope she is not too upset about it. I will move her old bed into the spare room and see if I can get a new mattress and box springs to put on it. The mattress of Mom’s bed is newer then my mattress, so I will put that mattress in my room.
Friday, May 13, 2011
Friday Thoughts on Friday the 13th
Istiqlál (Independence), 16 Jamál (Beauty), 168 BE – Friday, May 13, 2011 about 1:35 PM Pacific Time
It is Friday the 13th, which is supposed to be bad luck. I doubt that today is any unluckier then any other day of the week or any other Friday. It is a bright sunny day in Las Vegas and I am waiting for my mother to come home from the hospital. Since someone is bringing Mom home, I do not have to go after her. I am looking forward to having Mom in the house again.
I began this about 11:00 AM and someone interrupted me, so I am going to post what I have before I encounter another interruption.
It is Friday the 13th, which is supposed to be bad luck. I doubt that today is any unluckier then any other day of the week or any other Friday. It is a bright sunny day in Las Vegas and I am waiting for my mother to come home from the hospital. Since someone is bringing Mom home, I do not have to go after her. I am looking forward to having Mom in the house again.
I began this about 11:00 AM and someone interrupted me, so I am going to post what I have before I encounter another interruption.
Monday, May 09, 2011
I miss my mother
Last Monday, May 2, I called an ambulance to take Mom to the hospital. I thought she was having a heart attack. I wasn’t a heart attack, the doctors at the hospital sent Mom to a Care and Rehabilitation center. Today is one week in the Care Center. Mom is seeing a physical and voice therapist. I don’t know when she will be released.
I spend the morning with Mom, but I still miss her here at home. I know she wants to come home. When she does come home, she will spend five days in an Adult Daycare Center. The Daycare Center has a nurse, so there is someone there to give Mom her medication and see that she gets the proper exercise. I know Mom isn’t going to like going to a daycare center, Mom doesn’t like being in the Rehab center because she would rather be home.
It’s good for her to get out of the house. At the Daycare, she will get exercise and participate in other activities. Mom will receive three meals a day and be with other people. Once she gets used to going to the Daycare, she will enjoy the experience.
Friday, May 06, 2011
Update since my last post
Istiqlál (Independence), 9 Jamál (Beauty), 168 BE – Friday, May 6, 2011 about 11:30 AM Pacific Time
My last post was on Sunday, May 1. It has been a busy and stressful week. On Monday, May 2, I called an ambulance for Mom and they took her to Valley Hospital. I thought Mom was having a heart attack because she indicated she was having chest pain. She was not having a heart attack.
On Monday evening, the hospital transferred Mom to a rehabilitation hospital and care center. Mom is still there and has two therapists working with her. One is a physical therapist and the other is a speech therapist. Monday I spent all day at Valley hospital and then on Tuesday morning I went to see Mom before my 10:00 AM appointment.
Wednesday and Thursday, I spent the morning at the rehabilitation center. On Thursday, Mom seemed to be doing better because she was out of bed; in addition, Mom went to the gym with the physical therapist. I am going to see Mom this afternoon. This morning I just could not make myself get up when the alarm went off. I am still a bit tired, but I am not too tired to drive to the care center.
My last post was on Sunday, May 1. It has been a busy and stressful week. On Monday, May 2, I called an ambulance for Mom and they took her to Valley Hospital. I thought Mom was having a heart attack because she indicated she was having chest pain. She was not having a heart attack.
On Monday evening, the hospital transferred Mom to a rehabilitation hospital and care center. Mom is still there and has two therapists working with her. One is a physical therapist and the other is a speech therapist. Monday I spent all day at Valley hospital and then on Tuesday morning I went to see Mom before my 10:00 AM appointment.
Wednesday and Thursday, I spent the morning at the rehabilitation center. On Thursday, Mom seemed to be doing better because she was out of bed; in addition, Mom went to the gym with the physical therapist. I am going to see Mom this afternoon. This morning I just could not make myself get up when the alarm went off. I am still a bit tired, but I am not too tired to drive to the care center.
Sunday, May 01, 2011
Mother’s Day is Sunday, May 8, 2011
Mother’s Day is in one week. I am not sure what to get Mom, last year I bought her a giant Mother’s Day card at the 99¢ Only Store. I would like to get her something different in 2011, but I have no idea what.
I found a photo of Mom and me, which I am posting with this entry. We set for the photo several years ago when Mom still worked at the Showboat Hotel Casino in Las Vegas. At the time, Mom worked as a food server in the coffee shop.
Mom enjoyed working in the coffee shop and she liked the people that worked with her. I do not know how much Mom remembers of that part of her life. I do not know if Mom remembers sitting for the photo. The Alzheimer’s disease has taken its toll on her and on the family. I never know what Mom remembers of yesterday or of the past ten or twenty years.
I attempt to get her to talk about the Showboat, sometimes she will talk about those years and sometimes she is silent. I will see what I can do to get her to talk about it this week; perhaps she will say something that I can use in a Mother’s Day gift.
I miss the woman my mother was before the Alzheimer’s disease. I am my mother caregiver and Mom is not the same woman who worked as a food server in the coffee shop at the Showboat. Then Mom was independent and happy.
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